ceo said:And which guy are you?
Sculelos has been at this a year. Started with the 3x5, and has moved on to the 5x5. He has gained about 40 lbs. in a year. The dude is like 6'4" so gains don't show up quite as quickly as on a shorter guy. So what if he's put on some fat? He is progressing in his weights every time he does that exercise again.
If he adds 5 lbs to his bench every week, he just added 260 pounds to his bench in a year. So in a year he'll be benching 420 for 3-5 reps. What will you be benching? Even if he does half that, he adds 130 lbs. and in a year he's benching about 300 for 5 reps. Still not too bad eh? He's young and he's smart. He's not trying to load up a bar and bench as much as he can to impress all his friends...and end up injuring himself. He's building strength slowly and steadily.
At the rate he's been going (if he keeps it up), he'll hit probably 275 by the end of the year. So fucking what if he doesn't look like apretty boy bodybuilder with abs? He'll eventually be a 320 lb. monster benching 600 lbs. And then...maybe he'll decide to dial in his diet for 10-12 weeks and be a 280 shredded monster.
Sculelos, you're doing good bro. Just be sure to stay consistent with your workouts. Nothing wrong with taking a little time off here and there for a week or two. You saw what happened last time...you came back to the gym stronger than before.
Oh, and dolf215 was right about why not to combine carbs and fats. It can't be avoided to a point, but it's pretty easy. Worst offenders are usually desserts. A bunch of sugar and fat in one delicious treat. Yum! By all means though, don't skip every dessert!
Couldn't have said it better myself. BB's... Pfft! Keep getting yo strength on and you will soon be a beast.