If Fat People Only Knew...

[bigfatty]

Confidence is great, but good looks weighs heavily on self worth. No doubt confidence is the deciding factor, I mean haven't you seen some guys and say to yourself, "Man how did that guy get that chick???" That could very well be the reason why, besides maybe alot of cash, or a big fatty.. oh er I mean chubby...

 

[prime22]

good point

 

[curling]

Re: being fat

curling i hope now that your not a fat person that you dont treat the fat people bad as you should remember how it felt they have feeling also

Are you kidding? I say all kinds of stuff like, "fatty want another 20 pizzas? How do you dodge harpoons? How many chairs have you broken? Seems like you would have bigger calfs carrying all that extra weight around...

I am just kidding. Of course I wouldn't say anything like that to them. As a matter of fact, I try to encourage them to start lifting so they live a better life. Anybody that would make fun of anybody because of they way they look are a sorry excuse for a human being in my book.

 

[James Maddox]

Yes, some guys get great resultes being confident. That can be proven just by observation. Some guys get great results having money. Some guys get results looking good. So what is the case with this guy who lost the weight? What has changed in him? Confidence and apperance! As to how much better he looks and as to how much more confidence he has we can only guess that. But in my experince it has been 100% from looks. Why? Because I'm just as shy as ever but now weigh solid at 270lb. The bigger I get the better my results with women. Though politicaly correct women will never admit to things of this nature. Just like there are feminime men that won't admit to things of this nature.

 

[jboy]

I'm a fairly big guy (6'4" 235lbs BF% = low teens). I've lost a lot of fat and put on a lot of muscle over the last few months. I've noticed people at work are a bit intimidated by me. I like that feeling!

 

[startin45]

It's definately shallow. But it is definately true.

 

[rotovibe]

Very good posts...
So what's the consensus?
Good looks help in your self-confidence and self-confidence helps your good looks. It's recursive.

As far as results? That obviously varies in definition from person to person.
From what I gather everyone is talking about getting attention and having a girlfriend for sex and somewhat of a relationship for at least a weekend. Right?
That's great and true...looks do go a long way. AND IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR A ONE NIGHTER OR ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS MUTUALLY SUPERFICIAL.
Within the scope of the definition of "results" stated earlier.

But when you have a hot chick that is everything that you ever wanted...looks, hobbies, bad/good habits, a real personality, that "something about Mary" etc...someone you want for a REAL relationship...how do you keep her?
Beleive me...your good looks alone won't keep her unless she is codependent...

I'm a proponent of the 'complete package' theory. Not only do you have to be physically attractive but you have to be personable too.
THAT HAS A LOT TO DO WITH YOUR CONFIDENCE IN EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE. When you have both you will have a hot chick for the rest of your life. If that's what you want. That's how to keep them comming back...I promise!

Having good looks only leads you to the water...

Like I stated earlier, if you want a one-nighter...work out and look good. It definitely helps.

But when you want a relationship you'd better know yourself and be a true MAN. Eveyone who is married on this board knows what I am talking about.
You can only be a pimp for so long.

They'll like you until they see that your self-esteem and lack of confidence will render you useless in a relationship and probably make you have control issues...which may manisfest itself in several ways, one of them being anger and violence...
believe me...confidence helps in the long run...it gets rid of your relational hang-ups and what not...don't learn this when you are getting a divorce, save yourself the heartache and be a complete MAN.

Pimps may ignore my post