If Fat People Only Knew...

[Rippeddrago]

Seriously, but not to get all metaphysical, or whatever ya call it, but when you look good, you feel good, when you feel good, you eminate positive energy and probably some good pheremones too. Chicks don't even know they're being lured into your scent and wham bam you've landed another. I've been in great shape since I was 16, always built and good looking. It's when I feel good about myself and where I am in life that I get the best response from others... Subconcious emissions. =)

 

[rotovibe]

I completely agree with the idea that confidence goes a long way and ultimately is the deciding factor.
It's the same confidence that you would see in someone who has a girlfriend, (a good healthy relationship), and women find that person attractive. It's because they don't seem weighted down with issues and they know their chick digs them. (Remember I said helathy relationship). Women don't know he's involved with someone. They just see this attractive guy.
Women notice confidence. It's how you walk, enter a room, adress people, how you sit, etc... all this can't be faked.
You have to feel GOOD about yourself. Then it comes out in your actions and words.
My old football coach often told us to point your helmet where you need to go. Because where your head is directed, your body will follow. Same thing.
Jerks get the girls because they are confident about their abilities and are not weighted down with anything. The problem is they just don't care period. But it comes accross as confidence.
Confidence can't be faked.

 

[HugeWannabe]

I completely agree with the idea that confidence goes a long way and ultimately is the deciding factor.
It's the same confidence that you would see in someone who has a girlfriend, (a good healthy relationship), and women find that person attractive. It's because they don't seem weighted down with issues and they know their chick digs them. (Remember I said helathy relationship). Women don't know he's involved with someone. They just see this attractive guy.
Women notice confidence. It's how you walk, enter a room, adress people, how you sit, etc... all this can't be faked.
You have to feel GOOD about yourself. Then it comes out in your actions and words.
My old football coach often told us to point your helmet where you need to go. Because where your head is directed, your body will follow. Same thing.
Jerks get the girls because they are confident about their abilities and are not weighted down with anything. The problem is they just don't care period. But it comes accross as confidence.
Confidence can't be faked.

I totally agree with the last two posts. Its all about confidence!

 

[curling]

So ya'll are saying that self confident fat people can get as many chicks too?

 

[littleswoll]

Its totally true the better you look the nicer people are, think about it are you nice to a fine ass girl or a fat bitch?

 

[jordon]

So ya'll are saying that self confident fat people can get as many chicks too?

Fat guys with foot long shlongs

I thought your first post was about more than just getting chicks. I thought it showed a general improvement in all aspects of your social life.

 

[curling]

I thought your first post was about more than just getting chicks. I thought it showed a general improvement in all aspects of your social life.

It was. I was just kidding about the chick part.

 

[rotovibe]

littleswoll ~
No, you're inferring that conclusion.
My point is that confidence is a deciding factor, a great one.
To answer your real question...unfortunately 'no'...we're a victim of a society that favors beauty in an idealistic sense. Make that obsessed, and I think that it heavily favors thinner, athletic people.
It's about propagation, who seems the healthiest? Fat or fit people? Who would you want to have children with? It then is influenced by societal standards.
Just look at different areas of the globe. What do they find attractive? I can tell you that it varies.
Of course this delves into other topics that would take volumes of discussions just to give it worth.
But what are we really asking?
We're asking what it takes to get a girl that fits our societal standards, while being influenced by our sex drive in hopes that it may give us some sense of significance.
It really isn't about the sex, is it?
If that's the case then why aren't we just happy with getting that?
My point is that there is more to life than sex. Sex is great! Hot chicks are great! But is there really something more than that that drives us? Yes.
That's SOMETHING is the source of confidence.
That's what gives us significance.
When you have that significance and self-worth, you won't be so obsessed over having a hot chick, you can still want one, but is that all that you would need to feel significant? Nope.
When we realize this, everything else will fall into place. The obsession over bagging a hot chick is unneeded pressure. Just like them and live your life, unweighted. Chicks see that. Hot chick or not.
That's what makes us feel good.
That's what givs us confidence.
That's how we become attractive.
There are millions of happy couples out there that aren't cover models. Go figure...And when you're 50, will she still look hot?
You can't be a PIMP when you're 50.

SOrry about that...i'm not a shrink really

 

[mvmaxx]

So ya'll are saying that self confident fat people can get as many chicks too?

Look at Ron Jeremy, that guy gets ALLLLLL the chix.

 

[Rippeddrago]

I'm with ya ROTOVIBE.. Confidence is the deciding factor. I mean lets face it. IF you're FAT you're FUCKED! (excluding fat rich dudes) Ron Jeremy is a fucken hedgehog and from what I've heard, most chix can't stand the fat bastard, but he's made a name for himself and that's who their agents tell them they're going to fuck... Poor whores. =) When you feel weak, you are weak. When you feel strong.. YOU DA MAN!