how to cope

[future1]

i dunno yet properly but 4 days ago she broke up telling me that she was confused and she did not know why she is still alive and all that so next day i met up with her and we just talked and she just hugged and told me she culd not let go of me and that im the light in her dark tunnel. things were going great , we spent a whole day in my bed just her in my arms and it was wonderfull. then on friday night she was on the phone with me and she said she was really tired . couple of minutes later i called her and my phone is showing that she is on another call. this went on to 3 oclock am. so on saturday i went to ask her what was happening. the thing i was sooo upset abt everything and didnt sleep that night so i asked if she wants to see someone else and she said no. but i asked to explain what happen with the phone and she did not know so then it was just pure build up of couple of days and she just broke down. i know she wuldnt do that. i told her i was soorry and i did not mean that. She is naturally suspicious girl and but i never got offended when she sometimes ask me question and i always tell her everything so there are no secrest between us

 

[DIVISION]

i dunno yet properly but 4 days ago she broke up telling me that she was confused and she did not know why she is still alive and all that so next day i met up with her and we just talked and she just hugged and told me she culd not let go of me and that im the light in her dark tunnel. things were going great , we spent a whole day in my bed just her in my arms and it was wonderfull. then on friday night she was on the phone with me and she said she was really tired . couple of minutes later i called her and my phone is showing that she is on another call. this went on to 3 oclock am. so on saturday i went to ask her what was happening. the thing i was sooo upset abt everything and didnt sleep that night so i asked if she wants to see someone else and she said no. but i asked to explain what happen with the phone and she did not know so then it was just pure build up of couple of days and she just broke down. i know she wuldnt do that. i told her i was soorry and i did not mean that. She is naturally suspicious girl and but i never got offended when she sometimes ask me question and i always tell her everything so there are no secrest between us

Bro, I'm trying to help you, but what you just told me does nothing to explain why she broke up with you. Are you guys broke up or not? How old are you and her?

GO TO THE GYM!!!!!! KEEP WORKING OUT, DON'T LET THIS STOP YOU FROM KEEPING YOUR HEALTH, STRENGTH etc.

DIV

 

[future1]

see that's the problem i dunno either why she broke up. she said she is confused and cnt talk abt it to me and no one else. she is 20 and im 23. i know u r going to say im still very young but it felt so right

 

[DIVISION]

see that's the problem i dunno either why she broke up. she said she is confused and cnt talk abt it to me and no one else. she is 20 and im 23. i know u r going to say im still very young but it felt so right

Listen, bro.

You are so young that you can move on and it won't hold you back. First off, concentrate on keep your workouts up and getting over your friend's death. Just have a cooling off period between you and your girl and focus on moving on with your life. Please, for your own sake, focus on getting past the grief and look at this as an important life lesson.

Hope this helps.

DIV

 

[future1]

that is true... i mean usually one bad thing happens and u can have sort of get over it. but put this way. within a two weeks frames, my b/f passed away and the day i got out of the hospital, my uncle passed away, my car that i just bought needs a whole new gear worth i think £1000 ($2000), 3 days later my g/f breaks up. I still cnt believe all thses things are happening, i mean even in the worst nightmare this wuldnt happen

 

[sheep-head]

it's hard, but the only person you can rely on to help you through this is yourself, life throws challenges at everyone, you seem to have had a few big ones all at once, it seems easy to say, but you have to pick yourself up and dust yourself off

forget the girl, if you want give it one more try, but after that forget her

what would your friend want you to do? probably get on with life rather than slip into depression, of course it is natural to mourn, I wish you good luck

 

[DIVISION]

that is true... i mean usually one bad thing happens and u can have sort of get over it. but put this way. within a two weeks frames, my b/f passed away and the day i got out of the hospital, my uncle passed away, my car that i just bought needs a whole new gear worth i think £1000 ($2000), 3 days later my g/f breaks up. I still cnt believe all thses things are happening, i mean even in the worst nightmare this wuldnt happen

Yes, bro it's a difficult time for you. Get yourself STR8 first and foremost......you can't be any good to a girlfriend when you are a wreck like this. Stand up and Go on with your life, nugga.....

LIFE GOES ON.......you're gonna look back at this shit like it was a trying time and you're gonna laugh about later.

Talk it out with the counselor and things are gonna be alright......



DIV

 

[future1]

i so want to pull myself up and im trying so hard. Whenever problems i ever had she was always there with me. it is like i just lost my foundation suddenly. i did not see it coming. as you all said i need sort myself out.
The thing i dnt have many friends which are girls as i had really bad experience with that so now it is hard to talk to someone. I really appreciate all your help but that one hug from someone special. i dunno how to explain it.

 

[DIVISION]

i so want to pull myself up and im trying so hard. Whenever problems i ever had she was always there with me. it is like i just lost my foundation suddenly. i did not see it coming. as you all said i need sort myself out.
The thing i dnt have many friends which are girls as i had really bad experience with that so now it is hard to talk to someone. I really appreciate all your help but that one hug from someone special. i dunno how to explain it.

I understand that loss of that foundation, but you gotta get yourself STR8 in order to be in a relationship. Be strong, man and work through this shit. If you need any kind of advice, just PM me on the DL.

DIV

 

[georgie24]

when she comes back groveling and crying..and she will...tell her to fuck off