very very terrible. my life is fuc#$% (serious)

[redshirt27se]

Talk to your partner, ask her if she would feel worse aborting the child, or giving birth to a baby and having it have multiple defects and being unable to live a healthy life. More than likely she would feel better aborting it. You also have to factor is that she could have a miscarriage or complications delivering etc. It is much less strain emotionally to abort than to have a baby delivered and then die. This is a decision you and your girlfriend need to make, but be sure to get plenty of opinions and do what YOU feel is right, not what people tell you is right.

 

[sawastea]

Best of luck, JM

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

thanks guys, i hit everyone with karma until i ran out.

 

[redshirt27se]

I don't know how you feel about religion, but talking to a priest might help shed light on things too.

 

[vinylgroover]

I'm going to be a little direct here.

Morality means fuck all here. You need to make a decision based on common sense, sound medical opinion and an ounce of good judgement.

Morality and common sense are often poles apart and you need to be as objective as possible here......don't let morality cloud your decision.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

I'm going to be a little direct here.

Morality means fuck all here. You need to make a decision based on common sense, sound medical opinion and an ounce of good judgement.

Morality and common sense are often poles apart and you need to be as objective as possible here......don't let morality cloud your decision.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

I don't know how you feel about religion, but talking to a priest might help shed light on things too.

religion has been the main reason for my inconsistent thoughts about the possible termination.

 

[velvett]

I didn't know what to say yesterday nor do I today.

All I can share with you is hope for finding the right decision.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

I didn't know what to say yesterday nor do I today.

All I can share with you is hope for finding the right decision.

thanks!


we've got about a week longer to decide.

 

[glennds]

i don't know if i missed this but why does the fetus have to be aborted? how do the doctors know something will go wrong? can't they test for potential deformities and/or problems before an abortion is performed?