GoldenDelicious said:im going through the same thing, encourage her to date but not escalate with several men
shes on the rebound and therefore vulnerable, get her socialized first so she can make a clever choice
my 2c
She decided she doesn't want to date anyone but I don't want it to be because of me....GoldenDelicious said:im going through the same thing, encourage her to date but not escalate with several men
shes on the rebound and therefore vulnerable, get her socialized first so she can make a clever choice
my 2c
javaguru said:Anyway, my father passed away last August and it's been tough on my mom, they were married almost 35 years. She's lonely and I've been going back to "The Holmes" to see her and take care of the "man responsibilities" as often as I can. Anyway, her sisters and friends have been encouraging her to date...but I have very mixed feelings.....I want her to be happy but.....I don't want some dickweed moving in on my mother....
regardless, she should socialize herself and have company around her in case 1) she changes her mind and does want to meet someone - being socialized means she'll be less prone to being played if she does meet someone (through overinvestment emotionally) and 2) ...because old people who dont have a strong social sircle get depressed and DIE.javaguru said:
so yah, i identify with you strongly
No, my dad was king playa.....caligirl said:
This is my father's character.....he was racist against Japanese but I understood it...caligirl said:
yes, i had to have an "intimate personal conversation" with one heavily in debt, old ladies man who was sniffing around my mother shortly after my father made his premature trip to heaven...no baseball bat needed with this one.....GoldenDelicious said:...ive made it clear that anyone doing anything silly with my mum is going to find themselves in a pretty terrible situation
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