Married People!

[Zebo]

I'm sorry Raina. I'm right there with you.

Going through what I have with the divorce, child support, losing friends and family, of course, I'm biased.

Honestly, with the current divorce rate and family courts in this country, its simply not beneficial to the man to enter into this kind of binding agreement. (romantic..huh?).

I don't see it getting any better soon.

But if you do....pre-nup. Because there's a better than average chance that she's going to file for divorce.

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

I'm sorry Raina. I'm right there with you.

Going through what I have with the divorce, child support, losing friends and family, of course, I'm biased.

Honestly, with the current divorce rate and family courts in this country, its simply not beneficial to the man to enter into this kind of binding agreement. (romantic..huh?).

I don't see it getting any better soon.

But if you do....pre-nup. Because there's a better than average chance that she's going to file for divorce.

Love the avi!!

 

[Zebo]

Love the avi!!

Thanks. And it applies to this thread too......

 

[a10j10]

Just don't get married with the idea that you can change that person. Any part of that person. And if you have even a single doubt, walk away. You'll only end up hurting each other

Don't ya just hate those gals (especially) who pull that, "Ah, he'll change once we get married.." crap...
BULLSHIT!

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

Don't ya just hate those gals (especially) who pull that, "Ah, he'll change once we get married.." crap...
BULLSHIT!

Yeah, they suck too. Course, I was talking about a guy doing that

 

[GrandMaster]

But if you do....pre-nup. Because there's a better than average chance that she's going to file for divorce.

hmm that pre-nup shizzy is sketchy
unless your LOADED!

i dont think its nessessary tho, if u get married shit should stay that way, and be happy, but things aren't always like that.i dunno....tough call with that pre-nup biznasss

 

[a10j10]

Yeah, they suck too. Course, I was talking about a guy doing that

Yeah babe, it's reciprocal.

 

[GrandMaster]

Thanks. And it applies to this thread too......

LOL!

im looking fwd to married life, but then again i may be a hopeless romantic lol

 

[Sub-Zero]

I think it's grand for the right people. I think it would be great for me with the right person. But I'm not married to the right person. This is by far the biggest mistake I've ever made. No question about it.

I've never in my life known that I could be this stressed out and unhappy. Had we not gotten married there is no way we'd be together right now. On some level we love each other and always will. But we can barely tolerate being in the same city let alone house. I wish him well. I hope he lives happily ever after. I hope I do too. We just aren't going to be doing that together.

At this point it's too little too late. Things are broken way beyond being fixable. It's incredibly sad and it's so weird to think that soon enough the person who's been the center of my adult life won't be there. But we bring out the absolute worst in each other at this point.

Get married because you want to and because you love someone. Not because you feel like it's what you should do. Whether it be from expectations of your partner or your family or whoever.

that sucks. at least ur mature and honest about it. best of luck with that situation

 

[GrandMaster]

Yeah, they suck too. Course, I was talking about a guy doing that

Nah man, ppl dont change, they can mildly alter, but thats it,
u gots 2 love them for them....am i right... or do i need a smackin'?