I might be living alone pretty soon

[RADAR]

a guy kissed my gf yrs ago ...and everytime he came around me he stuttered,i found out he was afraid he would get his butt beat if i knew,well i knew but i did nothing..hell it was fun watching him quiver & stutter!




RADAR

 

[grlpwrd]

Depends on their definition of "kiss"...

For all you know she could have "blown" your roommate and called it a kiss...

Like this

 

[beastboy]

Leave the tyke alone...he has made his decision. Tell me how many 16 y/o have the same mentality as a 21 y/o. Quit trying to live out your revenge for a woman that screwed you over through Poye.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Depends on their definition of "kiss"...

For all you know she could have "blown" your roommate and called it a kiss...

Like this

This is what I was going to say.

I've been in the "It was only a kiss" situation before. Eventually I got all the info out of my exgirlfriend. It ended up being more than simply a kiss.

Now, if someone keeps a kiss from you, that's the same as lieing. If they can lie about that, who's to say she isn't lieing about more?

Sorry, I'm not trying to bring you down or add to your hurt, but I've been there before and sometimes people don't tell the WHOLE truth, only partial truth.

Either way your friend & GF betrayed you. Kick him out and then rethink what she has done. Can you really trust her honesty now or not is the question you should be asking yourself.

 

[beastboy]

This is what I was going to say.

I've been in the "It was only a kiss" situation before. Eventually I got all the info out of my exgirlfriend. It ended up being more than simply a kiss.

Now, if someone keeps a kiss from you, that's the same as lieing. If they can lie about that, who's to say she isn't lieing about more?

Sorry, I'm not trying to bring you down or add to your hurt, but I've been there before and sometimes people don't tell the WHOLE truth, only partial truth.

Either way your friend & GF betrayed you. Kick him out and then rethink what she has done. Can you really trust her honesty now or not is the question you should be asking yourself.

Man....would you lose complete trust in your child if they lied to you at the age of 16? She was still a kid....was it right, no! But I don't think it is grounds for ending the relationship. IF she has a track record of deceit then that is another story.

 

[HG Pennypacker]

This all warms the cockels of my heart.

This is the feel good thread of the spring.

 

[gymrat]

Glad to hear everything is kind of ok.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Man....would you lose complete trust in your child if the lied to you at the age of 16? She was still a kid....was it right, no! But I don't think it is grounds for ending the relationship. IF she has a track record of deceit then that is another story.

HA! Joke's on you, I don't have kids! neener neener neener.

Seriously though, I understand people make mistakes. I've never cheated on a GF, not even close, so I hate the act of cheating.

I use to trust and believe people at their word, but the older I got the more I saw people only telling "partial truth". I'm just saying to get all the facts and the whole truth before he decides to move on.

Why would she stop with just a kiss? Were they drunk? Couldn't she have told him the truth 5 years ago if it was just an innocent mistake? -There is a lot we don't know and thus can't draw a conclusion.

Hopefully that's all that happened and hopefully it was a one time mistake.

Poyeboy, you're a mature individual to forgive. I hope it was only a kiss and I hope this gets put behind you. Good luck in the future with your GF.

 

[Ffactor]

A kiss 5-6 years ago = non-issue. The end.

 

[the nature boy]

A kiss 5-6 years ago = non-issue. The end.

agreed, my bear friend.