If they had a PARTNER that actually valued the job that woman was doing, the stress would be bearable.
And this would go both ways - if the man stayed home and his wife did not value his work she should be shot in the head.
My exbroinlaw was this way. He was the stayathome dad to both his sons and he actually did a good job, much better than his wife. But as she didn't value him staying home (as well as everybody else making comments calling him lazy, etc) he went back to work. To this day she talks to him like she pulled him out of her asshole... very VERY disrespectfully.