Have you ever cheated on your GF/BF/Wife/Husband?

[musclemom]

sorry but all men spank it, even your current hubby

Of course he does, do you think I have problems with that? I could care less. I must have miscommunicated, my ex had the masturbatory issues ... as in, he swore he never did it and expected me never to (I do think I've mentioned he was a pathological liar ...)

Hell, my current husband got into bed last week and thought the umm, toy that I had fogotten about was the t.v. remote for a moment (my memory is getting so bad ... me and Erzulie).

 

[Gambino]

Of course he does, do you think I have problems with that? I could care less. I must have miscommunicated, my ex had the masturbatory issues ... as in, he swore he never did it and expected me never to (I do think I've mentioned he was a pathological liar ...)

Hell, my current husband got into bed last week and thought the umm, toy that I had fogotten about was the t.v. remote for a moment (my memory is getting so bad ... me and Erzulie).

ohhh i see...i thought he was spanking it and you got pissed...yeah fuck him, sounds like a weirdo

 

[musclemom]

does all jealous stem of insecurity?

does it count as insecurity if the person you are with has given you reason to question whether or not they will cheat? or is that just stupidity?

I never GAVE my ex reason to distrust me, EVER, he accused me of the crime and accused me of thinking of the crime when I was freshly married, pregnant, and wildly in love, and that was what hurt the most. I didn't find other men attractive until the relationship was dead in the water.

I've never seen jealousy come from anything except insecurity. And it's not a healthy emotion no matter where it comes from, anyway. A relationship that's staying together after infidelity can't survive jealousy; jealous accusations without ground will eventually drive the accused party away.

I couldn't bear being around someone who didn't trust me, and I couldn't bear giving my heart to someone I couldn't trust.

I've said it before, if my husband were to come to me tomorrow and say he was madly in love/lust with another woman, we could work something out. If he lied to me about it I would be destroyed.

There is absolutely nothing I wouldn't tell him, I respect him to much to ever lie to him.

 

[covergrl80]

No NEVER!

 

[Gambino]

musclemom now that you are temp plat change that "pro bodybuilder" bullshit, so gaye

 

[musclemom]

musclemom now that you are temp plat change that "pro bodybuilder" bullshit, so gaye

I'm shocked and speechless ... and that's saying something!

Thank you, m'man! Thank ya thank ya!

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Never. Shittiest thing someone could do to another person IMO. It's happened to me, I'd never wish that kind of pain on anyone.

It makes you feel worthless hey. Like you'd rather have had her shoot a bunch of diarrhea in your face and it would've been more respectable. But if you think of it the other way around, it's the "better" half that was the faulty party and not worth your time anymore.

 

[StickFigure]

It makes you feel worthless hey. Like you'd rather have had her shoot a bunch of diarrhea in your face and it would've been more respectable. But if you think of it the other way around, it's the "better" half that was the faulty party and not worth your time anymore.

I have to disagree. My first wife cheated on me but it had nothing to do with me. I gave her everything she needed and wanted, I treated her like a queen, but I found out later that she had a history of cheating. She cheated on every boyfriend she ever had and to this day is still cheating on her current husband, which this is the second one since me. I understand what you're saying but it's not always the "cheated on's" fault that the "cheater" looked elsewhere.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I have to disagree. My first wife cheated on me but it had nothing to do with me. I gave her everything she needed and wanted, I treated her like a queen, but I found out later that she had a history of cheating. She cheated on every boyfriend she ever had and to this day is still cheating on her current husband, which this is the second one since me. I understand what you're saying but it's not always the "cheated on's" fault that the "cheater" looked elsewhere.

It's definitely not your fault either if she's done it before. Some girls just aren't meant to be in relationships it seems.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

way back in my teens i was in an off again, on again relationship with a girl, and i had my first overlap into an on again, off again relationship with another. and ive felt guilty about it for the past 9 years, because the first on again, off again relationship turned into a sustained, long term one...even though lines were very blurry at the time, and i was a young little shit

apart from that, no. im not one to compromise the foundation of my relationship during fickle dating years