Have you ever cheated on your GF/BF/Wife/Husband?

[Gambino]

That must have taken a lot of nerve for you to type that

you cheated...you were cheated on...why call them whores?

no not at all, I'm over it now...they are whores for cheating, i was a drunk.
not sure what's worse

 

[Lestat]

No not yet, first thing was career discussions and finding positions located in Sydney b/c we both have careers. I actually have been working with a specialist and he assured me positively that a position can be found in the locations I specified and given the skills need that wont be a problem.
The main thing is the recognization and assessment by a governing body which turns out to be the wrinkle in the fold. I thought everything transferred over simply, now its a document chase and the 16 weeks to get assessed and then ten on top of that for the assessment to be sent to the governing body.

Once then I get recognized then I can get sponsored for a visa to work which tacks on three or four months. Its nuts. So one step at a time. There are many positions open for me though, just got to jump through all the hoops.

good luck with it all man, I'm sure it'll all get done and work out.

 

[Longhorn85]

that's an entirely different debate, for these purposes we are talking oral sex or intercourse..

No Lewinsky clause huh? I guess I need to change my vote...

 

[seizer]

No not yet, first thing was career discussions and finding positions located in Sydney b/c we both have careers. I actually have been working with a specialist and he assured me positively that a position can be found in the locations I specified and given the skills need that wont be a problem.
The main thing is the recognization and assessment by a governing body which turns out to be the wrinkle in the fold. I thought everything transferred over simply, now its a document chase and the 16 weeks to get assessed and then ten on top of that for the assessment to be sent to the governing body.

Once then I get recognized then I can get sponsored for a visa to work which tacks on three or four months. Its nuts. So one step at a time. There are many positions open for me though, just got to jump through all the hoops.

That is lengthy, wow. In retrospect, though, it's not. This is the transition over to the rest of your life, so if this is the process you gotta do to do it right, then get er done my friend.

Good luck with all this man.

 

[musclemom]

yeah, cause porn and "erotica" are living breathing people. good point.

Killah, not to put to fine of a point on it, but there is a HELLUVA difference between flirting and fucking, flirting does not automatically lead to cheating.

Flirting is acknowledgement of another person's sexuality, but it doesn't mean you're going to act on it. It's nearly impossible to sanitize male/female interaction, and it's unreasonable to try.

My ex had his black and white rules, hell, he took it a step further and extended it to porn, erotica, oh, and yes, those true bugaboos of all relationships, masturbation and even sex dreams. He was a jealous, possessive son of a bitch and that was a small part of what destroyed our relationship (his insanity pretty well screwed up the rest).

My current husband and I don't buy into the jealousy routine. When you're jealous, you're insecure which makes you want to try to possess and control the other person. Unreasonable. Maybe it takes being older or being in a secure relationship or something else, but if we were in a social situation and I saw my husband being flirtatious with another woman ... he's just being a flirt, I met him he was a flirt, he's always been a flirt. His father was a flirt! At the end of the day he comes home with me and I have no fears of him plowing another woman's field ...

 

[BrothaBill]

That is lengthy, wow. In retrospect, though, it's not. This is the transition over to the rest of your life, so if this is the process you gotta do to do it right, then get er done my friend.

Good luck with all this man.

Thanks, I appreciate it, kinda puts into the proper aspect of doing everything to make things happen how stupid it is to fuck a dumb whore for an hour to get back to the topic at hand.

I'm not goint to spend a whole year transferring everything over and blowing it pver some scoobydoo look by a drunk chick that happens to decide 'tonight's the night'.
Fuck that, anyhow, thanks, you'll have to come visit Sydney when its settled up.
Maybe we'll adopt you youngun lol

 

[seizer]

Killah, not to put to fine of a point on it, but there is a HELLUVA difference between flirting and fucking, flirting does not automatically lead to cheating.

Flirting is acknowledgement of another person's sexuality, but it doesn't mean you're going to act on it. It's nearly impossible to sanitize male/female interaction, and it's unreasonable to try.

My ex had his black and white rules, hell, he took it a step further and extended it to porn, erotica, oh, and yes, those true bugaboos of all relationships, masturbation and even sex dreams. He was a jealous, possessive son of a bitch and that was a small part of what destroyed our relationship (his insanity pretty well screwed up the rest).

My current husband and I don't buy into the jealousy routine. When you're jealous, you're insecure which makes you want to try to possess and control the other person. Unreasonable. Maybe it takes being older or being in a secure relationship or something else, but if we were in a social situation and I saw my husband being flirtatious with another woman ... he's just being a flirt, I met him he was a flirt, he's always been a flirt. His father was a flirt! At the end of the day he comes home with me and I have no fears of him plowing another woman's field ...

Nothing wrong with flirting, I agree. BUUTTTT, in front of or around your SO would be disrespectful, even if it is simply acknowledgment of the other person(s) ( you could be whorin it up) sexuality.

 

[Gambino]

My ex had his black and white rules, hell, he took it a step further and extended it to porn, erotica, oh, and yes, those true bugaboos of all relationships, masturbation and even sex dreams. He was a jealous, possessive son of a bitch and that was a small part of what destroyed our relationship (his insanity pretty well screwed up the rest).

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sorry but all men spank it, even your current hubby

 

[Lestat]

does all jealous stem of insecurity?

does it count as insecurity if the person you are with has given you reason to question whether or not they will cheat? or is that just stupidity?

 

[seizer]

sorry but all men spank it, even your current hubby

Never touch another mans mouse or keyboard.

If your a woman while using a mans command center, use contraception before sending out your emails to your girlfriends...you never know....