Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Pamela said:
i work tonight and have a test in the morning, so nothing today, but probably on wednesday or something we will go terminate it. i cant go to class im so sick at my stomach right now.
very very terrible. my life is fuc#$% (serious)
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i work tonight and have a test in the morning, so nothing today, but probably on wednesday or something we will go terminate it. i cant go to class im so sick at my stomach right now.
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Whoa, you went 7 WEEKS without having sex?
Code said:
her attitude made me just want to beat her ass actually.
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Here's what you do brolly:
Take her to a bed and breakfast out hear the coast. Sit her down within the first couple hours and tell her your thoughts and what you want. (Be it abortion, marriage, child support)
Let her know that, ultimately, it's her body and her decision, and she will end up doing what she feels is right. But that you'd appreciate it if you were as involved as she will allow.
Take her to a bed and breakfast out hear the coast. Sit her down within the first couple hours and tell her your thoughts and what you want. (Be it abortion, marriage, child support)
Let her know that, ultimately, it's her body and her decision, and she will end up doing what she feels is right. But that you'd appreciate it if you were as involved as she will allow.
juicedmullet said:
Just read this for the first time bro. I'm sorry to hear about all this. My advice is to get as many opinions as you can, from well respected professionals. (I think someone said something like this earlier).
If there is the risk that the baby will be born with multiple defects, and will not be able to live a healthy, normal life, abort it.
Talk to some doctors, and have a long talk with your girl.
I hope everything works out for the best bro. Stay strong.
If there is the risk that the baby will be born with multiple defects, and will not be able to live a healthy, normal life, abort it.
Talk to some doctors, and have a long talk with your girl.
I hope everything works out for the best bro. Stay strong.
From Zero said:
thanks bor
Aerojaxx
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After reading 4 pages of posts concerning your difficult situation I know that I will be standing as a minority with my opinion. I want to be liked and I want to develop friendship on EF. What I am about to say will not accomplish this desire. I can sense that somewhere deep inside the fabric of who you are, you know what I am about to say is the truth. You acted irresponsibly as did your girlfriend. For every action there is a just recompence. Have the child. If the child is born with problems, they will be yours and your girlfriends problems and responsibility. The child you will love. With all of the heartache from any problems the child may posess, character will be forged into who you are. A man who takes responsibilty for his actions.
Years from now when the final verdict is read....you will be remembered as a man who took responsibilty for his actions, learned from them and moved on. A man who loved his child enough that he could not deny it the right to live.
Sorry everyone...I couldn't help myself. I can live with the fact that I will be ousted from this great circle.
Years from now when the final verdict is read....you will be remembered as a man who took responsibilty for his actions, learned from them and moved on. A man who loved his child enough that he could not deny it the right to live.
Sorry everyone...I couldn't help myself. I can live with the fact that I will be ousted from this great circle.
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flexygrl
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I was waiting for someone to say this. I don't mean to be mean Juiced......but what he says is true. You both acted irresponsibly. Your girl is on ALL kinds of meds, why trust her with birth control? Why trust her with the rest of your life? Why didn't you wrap it up?
I don't know what you should do. I guess do what you feel is right.
My sister is disabled. The pressure on my parents was immense. The pressure on me and my other sisters growing up was even harder. We couldn't have a normal life. My poor sister had to stand by and watch me and my sisters grow up and do things that she would never be able to do. It's so sad.
What I say and what the other posted said, please keep it in the back of your mind for the future. Let this be a life lesson to you.
I wish you and your girl the best of luck. I'm trully sorry that you have to experience this at such a young age. : (
