very very terrible. my life is fuc#$% (serious)

[Smurfy]

okay guys, this just got even more screwed up. Her mom just told her to terminate the pregnancy before she ruins her moms life and her family forever. how fucked up is that? ive put up with her mom's bitchy ass nature since i met her. this is the most fucked up part of it all. that stupid bitch.



moms post up if you would be like this and tell me why.

wow. that certainly DOESN'T sound like a very supportive mother. Id like to think that if any child of mine was faced with a similar situation that I would be much more supportive than that.

 

[Mr. dB]

IF it is determined that there is a good probability that the mother and the child can both come through this in good health, there is always the option of giving the baby up for adoption. There are thousands of childless couples BEGGING for adoptable babies.

Any decision, though, should be based primarily on the risk to the health of the mother and the baby.

 

[Mr. dB]

Get an Amniocentesis

Didn't he say she was only at seven weeks?

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

After reading 4 pages of posts concerning your difficult situation I know that I will be standing as a minority with my opinion. I want to be liked and I want to develop friendship on EF. What I am about to say will not accomplish this desire. I can sense that somewhere deep inside the fabric of who you are, you know what I am about to say is the truth. You acted irresponsibly as did your girlfriend. For every action there is a just recompence. Have the child. If the child is born with problems, they will be yours and your girlfriends problems and responsibility. The child you will love. With all of the heartache from any problems the child may posess, character will be forged into who you are. A man who takes responsibilty for his actions.

Years from now when the final verdict is read....you will be remembered as a man who took responsibilty for his actions, learned from them and moved on. A man who loved his child enough that he could not deny it the right to live.

Sorry everyone...I couldn't help myself. I can live with the fact that I will be ousted from this great circle.

i completely respect what you said. that part of the dilema, having to live with my actions and the mark on my life i will have in some form from this is something that i cant hardly stomach right now.

 

[NJjuice22]

After reading 4 pages of posts concerning your difficult situation I know that I will be standing as a minority with my opinion. I want to be liked and I want to develop friendship on EF. What I am about to say will not accomplish this desire. I can sense that somewhere deep inside the fabric of who you are, you know what I am about to say is the truth. You acted irresponsibly as did your girlfriend. For every action there is a just recompence. Have the child. If the child is born with problems, they will be yours and your girlfriends problems and responsibility. The child you will love. With all of the heartache from any problems the child may posess, character will be forged into who you are. A man who takes responsibilty for his actions.

Years from now when the final verdict is read....you will be remembered as a man who took responsibilty for his actions, learned from them and moved on. A man who loved his child enough that he could not deny it the right to live.

Sorry everyone...I couldn't help myself. I can live with the fact that I will be ousted from this great circle.

could not be said any better, i took responsibility for my actions at age 19...i have zero regrets and when I look at my daugther i am so happy i never even considered suggesting my girl terminate the pregnancy...that option didnt even cross my mind.

 

[Y_lifter]

Didn't he say she was only at seven weeks?

From the web site I listed...

-When: 15-18 weeks of pregnancy


Leaves plenty of time to decide what they are going to do..

 

[Tiervexx]

After reading 4 pages of posts concerning your difficult situation I know that I will be standing as a minority with my opinion. I want to be liked and I want to develop friendship on EF. What I am about to say will not accomplish this desire. I can sense that somewhere deep inside the fabric of who you are, you know what I am about to say is the truth. You acted irresponsibly as did your girlfriend. For every action there is a just recompence. Have the child. If the child is born with problems, they will be yours and your girlfriends problems and responsibility. The child you will love. With all of the heartache from any problems the child may posess, character will be forged into who you are. A man who takes responsibilty for his actions.

Years from now when the final verdict is read....you will be remembered as a man who took responsibilty for his actions, learned from them and moved on. A man who loved his child enough that he could not deny it the right to live.

Sorry everyone...I couldn't help myself. I can live with the fact that I will be ousted from this great circle.

I can completly understand this view.

 

[BO-DEN]

i say let it go...... and feel guilty....

i wouldnt not want to live deformed.... would you?

its unatural and i believe its more cruel

BO-DEN

 

[NJjuice22]

i say let it go...... and feel guilty...

its a child , a human being we are talking about here..not a car or house.."let it go" ....horrible


and they dont know anything about the baby being deformed, all he said was that his girl was on some medication, him being on juice wont have any affect on the baby. babies are born healthy under much worse conditions. to say let it go because your assuming something may be wrong is fucked up.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

its a child , a human being we are talking about here..not a car or house.."let it go" ....horrible


and they dont know anything about the baby being deformed, all he said was that his girl was on some medication, him being on juice wont have any affect on the baby. babies are born healthy under much worse conditions. to say let it go because your assuming something may be wrong is fucked up.

thats a valid point.


she was the one on juice, way after i was.