Noticed a change in foxygel's threads very recently...

[SVT-TROY]

Speaking of 18 year old girls and sex...........wait a minute..............I can't go there.

 

[brunette]

omg lmao at this thread

my head hurts, even more. i did not think this could be possible.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I'd forget about the sex before marrige shit and just work on basic conversation for now...

 

[fyxgel2]

I'd forget about the sex before marrige shit and just work on basic conversation for now...

lol, are you trying to say that it would be awhile for sex, even if I did believe in premarital sex?

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omg lmao at this thread

my head hurts, even more. i did not think this could be possible.[/quote]

apparently u must not be down with my not having premarital sex beliefs.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

lol, are you trying to say that it would be awhile for sex, even if I did believe in premarital sex?

I'm saying that you maybe getting overwhelmed in details.
You're over analytical, you know this...
Start simple - Step 1. Conversation.
Worry about sinning in the eyes of God and at all that after you get a simple phone number.

I hope you make it!

 

[Deleted member 33117]

I'm saying that you maybe getting overwhelmed in details.
You're over analytical, you know this...
Start simple - Step 1. Conversation.
Worry about sinning in the eyes of God and at all that after you get a simple phone number.

I hope you make it!

Right, you at the very least are going to have to work up to kissing or hugging at girl before you have to worry about such issues as premarital sex. Come on.

 

[fyxgel2]

I'm saying that you maybe getting overwhelmed in details.
You're over analytical, you know this...
Start simple - Step 1. Conversation.
Worry about sinning in the eyes of God and at all that after you get a simple phone number.

I hope you make it!

This is an issue I have to think about, because it still does apply to me (my decisions regarding premarital sex)
If I believed that premarital sex was alright, I probably would have already gone to some party, found some chick, and done it by now.

Having morals like this isnt considered over analyzing, or at least not from the Christian perspective.

But I would agree that I tend to over analyze a lot.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

This is an issue I have to think about, because it still does apply to me (my decisions regarding premarital sex)
If I believed that premarital sex was alright, I probably would have already gone to some party, found some chick, and done it by now.

Having morals like this isnt considered over analyzing, or at least not from the Christian perspective.

But I would agree that I tend to over analyze a lot.

You're using a slippery slope fallacy, it won't do....
I understand your belief, but your using it as an excuse so you don't have to leave your comfort zone.
You don't talk to women, but if you do.....they are gonna rip your clothes off and you'll be a sinner forever.
Get a chat going, a number, a date, somekind of common ground, then precede with your believes in mind.
One step at a time.....

 

[fyxgel2]

You're using a slippery slope fallacy, it won't do....
I understand your belief, but your using it as an excuse so you don't have to leave your comfort zone.
You don't talk to women, but if you do.....they are gonna rip your clothes off and you'll be a sinner forever.
Get a chat going, a number, a date, somekind of common ground, then precede with your believes in mind.
One step at a time.....

how am I 'using' this belief not to leave my comfort zone? I feel that I would rather not follow this belief, but I am doing so, because the Bible leads itself to this conclusion.

If I did mess up and have sex, it wouldnt be the end of the world, but still i want to avoid that situation if at all possible.

you gotta have many beliefs made out in advance in life, before the situation comes. if you go to a party not deciding whether you think its right to drink or not, you most likely will drink.
I've been offered sex before, believe it or not. Only once, but it did happen, and I turned it down: because its wrong, and because the girl seemed kinda slutty and not all that attractive.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

how am I 'using' this belief not to leave my comfort zone? I feel that I would rather not follow this belief, but I am doing so, because the Bible leads itself to this conclusion.

If I did mess up and have sex, it wouldnt be the end of the world, but still i want to avoid that situation if at all possible.

you gotta have many beliefs made out in advance in life, before the situation comes. if you go to a party not deciding whether you think its right to drink or not, you most likely will drink.
I've been offered sex before, believe it or not. Only once, but it did happen, and I turned it down: because its wrong, and because the girl seemed kinda slutty and not all that attractive.

It's good to meet another no-hoper online