Hey BBF,
I think you may be reading me wrong. I havent been trying to make myself sound more sexually aggressive in my more recent threads, I have just decided to joke about it more, since that's the style an EF, and I can find myself joking about banging chicks, without actually banging them.
I still dont want to bang a chick before I marry her. I'm just not comfortable with doing that, because I still feel that that is not what God wants me to do, and I'm a slave to God even before my sexual desires.
Jesus, the man himself, seemed to be against premarital sex, so I dont see how I can condone it even though it would be very fun.
So yeah, the chicks that want someone to satisfy their horny desires, wont want me anymore. But the hot goodie Christians who are saving themselves til marriage, will still want me.
If anything I think its best to show a Christian girl that you are interested in sex and want to have tons and tons of it after you get married, but that before then you can restrain yourself by using self control.