I've had it with the "bitter OLDER man" syndrome...

[glennds]

yup that is me.

 

[-SD-]

Feel you Yas...

I am by all accounts very rare. I am intelligent and dont look like I had ONE baby, let alone the number that I do. I am also quite witty and totally independent. The downside? I have a crazy bastard exhusband that lives to torture me and my kids not to mention that I have chronic health problems that are anything but sexy. They scare people, I will admit.

My last beau and I had a parting of the ways for a few reasons... He was quite the few years my senior. Though he was VERY HANDSOME and charismatic, naked he looked his age LOL.... but I didn't give a fahootie. He was an amazing lover and I loved him very deeply. But... when he saw my health problems (I have hidden them from even my family when they get very bad. They know I am ill, but I try to hide it because it scares them.) and the difficulties with my crazy ex it just got to be too much. He had just buried his wife of 5 years after a very hard and ugly battle with cancer, he proposed to her the day she was diagnosed with endstage cancer. We weren't supposed to date and fall so deeply in love, but it took us both by surprize. I was in denial about my health problems I guess and the ex, well he is just a permanent thorn in our sides.

I know that I will most likely never have a serious long term relationship with anyone so I am satisfied to take care of my shit and find some entertainment on the side. Someone that pleases my senses and doesnt grate across my nerves and knows when to leave.

I love my last beau very much, but there is nothing I can do.

I have no lack of solicitations, believe you me. But very few interest me enough to even want to sit for a few moments, let alone for me to fuck them or desire a relationship.

I know youll keep on tooting your horn, but a divorced-with-kids-with-psycho-exhusband woman such as yourself makes you quite unrare, and as such, down a few notches on the longterm desireability chart. Doesnt matter how good looking you are either, thats just the facts ma'am.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

Reading threads like this makes me want to stay in the gym longer everyday with my headphones on!

Why?

 

[chyllaxyn]

Yo werd up

I'm a "broken and hate women, bitter older man" with bitch-tits and hyuge guts, no ass (that is fucking hairy) and scrawny ass legs. I'll go on about how I'm tired of being taken advantage and I'm ABSOLUTELY LOUSY in the sack.

So if the younger guy thing don't work out for you?

And you're lookin for something familiar, shout out =)


Cheer up gurl , and smile, ..you could be fat AND single

 

[evansteve]

I emailed you a shitload including sending a link in a PM. You dont need to reply to me with pics. It is all good. I take everyone for being honest. Another fault of mine. I am too freaking naive. LOL

email me a shitload of pics and PM me a link. k, thanks.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

I dont understand the post darlin'. Who am I pissed off at here? I am not pissed off at anyone, just saying that I have had it with older men who are all fucking pissy and "dont want to be taken advantage of again" when their marriage was over like 10 years ago! You think they would have gotten over it by now.

My ex is a jerk period. But I do not for one second believe that all men are jerks.

What am I bitter about?

youre generally upset at men that you yourself categorise as having "bitter older man syndrome" because of your past experiences. it has made you bitter, and aggressive towards men, passively, whether you admit it or not. its clear as day through your writing and posts, this thread being a perfect example.

anyone reading this thread could quite easily come back and say that you have "bitter older woman syndrome", which is what i alluded to in my previous post, when i said that it is things about yourself that you get upset at men over things that you, yourself, project.

everyone copes differently after going through a hurtful relationship. some people learn from it and move on, usually more guarded than they were (you probably fit in this category...mostly) while others close themselves off emotionally (which is what the "bitter older men" that youre talking about do...supposedly)

anyway, it just sounds like youre having a bitch and a moan about the whole thing, which i suppose is therapeutic, so have fun with that

 

[ChefWide]

anyway, it just sounds like youre having a bitch and a moan about the whole thing, which i suppose is therapeutic, so have fun with that

 

[geoboy]

I know youll keep on tooting your horn, but a divorced-with-kids-with-psycho-exhusband woman such as yourself makes you quite unrare, and as such, down a few notches on the longterm desireability chart. Doesnt matter how good looking you are either, thats just the facts ma'am.

is that really neccessary?

 

[ceo]

The only consistent feature of all your dissatisfying relationships is you.

Why did your ex-boyfriend leave you? Does he think you're a dysfunctional train wreck?
You were a stripper. How many kids do you have again? All kids are from your ex-husband, right?
Yes, you are bitter, this is clear...move on.
I saw this thread, read the title, saw who the author was, and said "Oh god, not again."
Why did I skim through this? I did enjoy some of the responses, and will be dealnig out karma hits accordingly.
Thank you, that is all.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

ill see your and raise you a