Is everything forgivable?

[superqt4u2nv]

I agree. Also, I would never pretend to know what's best for other people when it comes to personal things like this. I mean how could I possibly know how someone else should handle their feelings, especially when i dOnt even know the details? Seems absurd

Seems absurd to me to hold on to anger for someone that has no part in your life. We clearly have a diffrent definition of what over all happiness well-being and mental health is.

The point of the chat board is diffrence of opnions I have mine you have yours mine happen to have a few medical studies to back them up.

 

[smurf2]

Seems absurd to me to hold on to anger for someone that has no part in your life. We clearly have a diffrent definition of what over happiness well-being and mental health is.

The point of the chat board is diffrence of opnions I have mine you have yours mine happen to have a few medical studies to back them up.

Have you ever forgiven someone after being traumatized by them?

 

[superqt4u2nv]

I dont know why people insists we have to be happy chirpy people all the time, that is not normal, by normal I mean the actual norm, one can have a lot of hate towards something or someone and still function perfectly fine, I'm tired of humans chasing this ridiculous "perfect ying yang well being" feeling.
We all have anxiety, stress, anger, sadness, there is nothing wrong with that, it's part of life and they are normal human emotions that are part of our nature, when one of those emotions spills out of control and it starts to affect your life in a sifnificant way/level (work, socially, at home, etc) THEN it becomes a problem

Yes we all have it and we all go through things the point of life in my eyes is to go through it learn grow and adapt. I agree no one is happy 24/7/365 but I don't see why people wouldn't want at least try to be. It is a lot easier to be happy than sad and feels a hell of a lot better to be happy.

 

[Dial_tone]

The feelings I have for that person have absolutely no impact on my daily life, I assure you. I hardly ever even think about it so how could it? It's not like this is my children's father or something. The person in question is non existent as far as I'm concerned.

That's harsh, gurlfren...I thought we was boyz, yo?

 

[smurf2]

That's harsh, gurlfren...I thought we was boyz, yo?

I <3 you

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Have you ever forgiven someone after being traumatized by them?

Yes

 

[Sub-Zero]

if someone starts being nice to me even immediately after a fight, my emotions are too whoreish to stay mad and i forgive and forget right away

 

[smurf2]

Yes

Id be interested to know how you did it.

consequently, the person i hold anger towards came into plat chat and i was able to carry on a civil conversation with no issues LOL

 

[nangiggles]

Yes we all have it and we all go through things the point of life in my eyes is to go through it learn grow and adapt. I agree no one is happy 24/7/365 but I don't see why people wouldn't want at least try to be. It is a lot easier to be happy than sad and feels a hell of a lot better to be happy.

That's were I disagree, holding on to anger and grudges can actually make people happy, we are weird creatures

 

[WoodyO]

That's were I disagree, holding on to anger and grudges can actually make people happy, we are weird creatures

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