Is everything forgivable?

[smurf2]

I simply can't see the logic in holding on to those kinds of feelings if the person is not in your life.

If you think that on some level your kids can't sense things that are going on with you then you are not really giving them enough credit. Maybe not the baby but the boy for sure is old enough to sense these kinds of emotions.

The feelings I have for that person have absolutely no impact on my daily life, I assure you. I hardly ever even think about it so how could it? It's not like this is my children's father or something. The person in question is non existent as far as I'm concerned.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

The feelings I have for that person have absolutely no impact on my daily life, I assure you. I hardly ever even think about it so how could it? It's not like this is my children's father or something. The person in question is non existent as far as I'm concerned.

Maybe you don't see it impacting your life right now doesn't mean it wont in the future if you don't resolve those feelings.

Hostility, Anger, Aggressiveness, and Coronary Heart Disease: An Interpersonal Perspective on Personality, Emotion, and Health - Smith - 2004 - Journal of Personality - Wiley Online Library

 

[smurf2]

If they ever do, I"ll be sure to let you know.

 

[bigpokey]

obviously this bish superqt knows everything, must have had two extra brains installed in them monster jugs

 

[nangiggles]

I dont know why people insists we have to be happy chirpy people all the time, that is not normal, by normal I mean the actual norm, one can have a lot of hate towards something or someone and still function perfectly fine, I'm tired of humans chasing this ridiculous "perfect ying yang well being" feeling.
We all have anxiety, stress, anger, sadness, there is nothing wrong with that, it's part of life and they are normal human emotions that are part of our nature, when one of those emotions spills out of control and it starts to affect your life in a sifnificant way/level (work, socially, at home, etc) THEN it becomes a problem

 

[smurf2]

I agree. Also, I would never pretend to know what's best for other people when it comes to personal things like this. I mean how could I possibly know how someone else should handle their feelings, especially when i dOnt even know the details? Seems absurd

 

[sterolizer]

Nice holding grudges life

 

[nydj66]

I dont know why people insists we have to be happy chirpy people all the time, that is not normal, by normal I mean the actual norm, one can have a lot of hate towards something or someone and still function perfectly fine, I'm tired of humans chasing this ridiculous "perfect ying yang well being" feeling.
We all have anxiety, stress, anger, sadness, there is nothing wrong with that, it's part of life and they are normal human emotions that are part of our nature, when one of those emotions spills out of control and it starts to affect your life in a sifnificant way/level (work, socially, at home, etc) THEN it becomes a problem

It's normal for some people. I'm a naturally happy person.

When something throws my life off kilter, I scramble to put it back in order so I can be happy again.

 

[smurf2]

Nice holding grudges life

stfu noob

 

[superqt4u2nv]

obviously this bish superqt knows everything, must have had two extra brains installed in them monster jugs

There is no room for a brain in them with all the silicon.