I need help quick. When do i call her after the first date ? Ladies please help

[strider364]

>and just said that I had a great time and I was loking forward >to going out again

Oh boy..you are sooo setting yourself up to get used.

"nice guy" <-- been there, done it, got mah ass kicked.

-= nav =-

I would have to agree with supernav, just take things slow and let them develop, no need to rush.

 

[djardin]

So I'm on my way to the florist to send some flowers that will show up at her office tomorow. I won't send roses, just something that willl last and in the card I will write that I had a great time and would like to do something this weekend and to let me know if she is up for it ?

Wish me luck

 

[Bikini Mod]

Don't seem too eager or this might scare her off.

I know how you feel, TRUST ME, but if you come off too into her she might get scared. I know I do if a guy emails me or calls me too quickly because then they seem needy.

I know how good it feels to not be able to get someone off your mind. It is a rush, but don't get carried away.

If you went out with her on Friday, call her like on Sunday to tell her that you had a good time and to see if she would like to get together sometime soon.

The flowers might seem like a good idea BUT DON'T DO IT! If you really want to give her flowers then wait until your next date and present them to her then. DON'T GET ROSES! THAT SCREAMS YOU ARE PSYCHO (not saying that you are). Just a nice small bouquet...

 

[68GT350]

I've used the single rose with posotive effects. It odesn't show you are a psycho. It' s a simple friendly gesture.

The message the day after is a good idea to put a smile on her face. Call for a date about 2 days later. Like BM said, it'll show that you're interested but not needy. It's not games--it's just making sure she doesn't get the wrong impression of you.

Most of all, follow your heart. Short of making HUGE blunders, if you two are truly compaitble, you can't go wrong so enjoy it. Don't stress. Good luck.

 

[Frackal]

listen to bikinimom....look at the types of mind games you have to play with these dumb bitches... you cant ever just like a girl man.. goddamn

 

[djardin]

So I just came back form the florist. I spent more on the flowers than one the entire first date. I am sure I got taken at the florist but I don't care. They are going to deliver them to her work tomorow around 1pm. She is the director of admissioons at a private high school. Here is what I wrote in the card

Lucy, I had a wonderfull evening Friday. I am looking forward to seeing you again. Give me a call and we can set someting up for next wekend if that ok.

Dino

By the way, the guy at the florist said the same thing about the roses. So I sent a spring boquet in a glass vase. I am not going to call her, I will wait for her to contact me. It is going to kill me but I will do it.
Thanks for everyones advice. I will keep you posted on what happens

 

[djardin]

So I just came back form the florist. I spent more on the flowers than one the entire first date. I am sure I got taken at the florist but I don't care. They are going to deliver them to her work tomorow around 1pm. She is the director of admissioons at a private high school. Here is what I wrote in the card

Lucy, I had a wonderfull evening Friday. I am looking forward to seeing you again. Give me a call and we can set someting up for next wekend if that ok.

Dino

By the way, the guy at the florist said the same thing about the roses. So I sent a spring boquet in a glass vase. I am not going to call her, I will wait for her to contact me. It is going to kill me but I will do it.
Thanks for everyones advice. I will keep you posted on what happens

 

[HS Lifter]

CANT YOU JUST LIKE A GIRL THESE DAYS?

WTF IS GOING ON HERE, YOU HAVE TO FUCKING MARK ON A CALANDER AND SET YOUR ALARM ON THE NEXT TIME YOU SHOULD CALL GIRLS THESE DAYS.

THATS WHAT IT SEEMS LIKE ATLEAST!!!!

 

[teresand77]

i think that was perfect! good luck

 

[Citruscide]

Since it's the weekend.
Call her when you know she isn't
going to be home.
Call and leave a message/number to call you back.

And if she is really interested she may call you!

This is retarded... calling when she is not home? Call on a Monday or Tuesday evening... better make it Tuesday, WWE Raw is on Monday nights....

C-ditty