I Got Engaged on the weekend........

[T-mo]

kinda in the same exact boat as you bro....going to happen sometime in the next month....before I even stared using I told my girl I was going to do it.....she cool with it though....must be a pretty cool chick....she like to watch me shoot it!!!!if you know what i mean

 

[bluejay]

Congrats....

My girl already assumed I was on before ever telling her. Either way, I did so long before the relationship got to the stage where we became engaged. However, in your case, I would eventually tell her because she will probably flip if she catches you trying to hide something from her. For your own peace of mind, I think it is best not to hide it forever because alot of women are sneaky and they will find anything the second you let your guard down. hehe.

 

[falcyou]

married here bro, and my wife knows. (even does my shots!)

I let it our gradually. first told her I have a real scrict supplement regiment and control my TEST and hormone levels with monthly blood work. Then I let he know my test was low and needed to start adding TEST to increase my already low natural production. (make it sound like "hey, it's science....i need it")
then you start adding some Tren into the syringe with the Test because it "counters some of the sides". she will never know the difference and soon enough wont give a shit. by then she is used to seeing you stick yourself and it's just normal and shes already gone along with it

 

[hesnobradpitt]

Congrats....

My girl already assumed I was on before ever telling her. Either way, I did so long before the relationship got to the stage where we became engaged. However, in your case, I would eventually tell her because she will probably flip if she catches you trying to hide something from her. For your own peace of mind, I think it is best not to hide it forever because alot of women are sneaky and they will find anything the second you let your guard down. hehe.

+1

Brad.

 

[x_con]

married here bro, and my wife knows. (even does my shots!)

I let it our gradually. first told her I have a real scrict supplement regiment and control my TEST and hormone levels with monthly blood work. Then I let he know my test was low and needed to start adding TEST to increase my already low natural production. (make it sound like "hey, it's science....i need it")
then you start adding some trenbolone into the syringe with the Test because it "counters some of the sides". she will never know the difference and soon enough wont give a shit. by then she is used to seeing you stick yourself and it's just normal and shes already gone along with it

genius, the same way I handled my ex-wife. Best advice on this post.

X_con

 

[ironcheif1984]

I have decided to step onto the slippery slope called marriage. I got engaged this weekend. I have a dilemna though - do I fess up about gear use or just wait a few years until I win my first "Mr. Muscle" contest and then spill the beans.

What have you guys done - has there ever been someone you felt you just had to be honest with or am I just being stupid?

Congrats Bro !!!!

 

[eddymerckx]

congrats bro---gear use is weird my wife is all for it-(prefer it over old and fat) but a friend's wife would chop his nuts off so he would need hrt...and this from a woman with a boob job and botox

 

[Inhibitor13]

I say no, dont tell her. Why? Cause I too see too many guys who say their wife was cool with it at first but when shit started hitting the fan, their wives held that shit over their head ! For instance, everytime you get a little angry at her for something she'd done or what not, she is going to blame aas as to why your acting like that. Its a never ending battle ! Not all girls are like this but why take the risk. Just make sure you hide that shit nicely or at least do it unitl AFTER your married. The media is having a hayday with aas and they will tell anyone who is willing to listen on how "bad" steroids are for you.

 

[needtogetaas]

I have decided to step onto the slippery slope called marriage. I got engaged this weekend. I have a dilemna though - do I fess up about gear use or just wait a few years until I win my first "Mr. Muscle" contest and then spill the beans.

What have you guys done - has there ever been someone you felt you just had to be honest with or am I just being stupid?

I tell my wife everything. If she leaves me because of it thats her loss.

 

[bbkingpin]

You should find out your wife's expectations as far as having kids and make sure you are fertile when you both want kids. And I do not think you should let psychological "addiction" or preoccupation with winning a contest influence your timing. Put the anabolic androgenic steroids in a drawer or bury in the back yard for one year. Family first!!! And don't break your wife's heart or confuse her by not doing proper PCT - post cycle therapy - and being limp when she wants to do you know what. That is psychologically damaging to the person you love, so either tell her so she understands but, if she wont understand, don't do anything (unbeknownst to her) that will negatively impact your married life. Your libido and fertility are important and are necessary -- that's why men and women get married.