bigmann245
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General knowledge dictates that this is a bad situation waiting to happen.
On the other hand, you know our story, Bigmann.... Our first date lasted two weeks. Couple weeks later we had our second date which lasted two weeks. Couple weeks later we were married... on our third date.
Now nearly 3 years later we have been riding the rollercoaster from hell but it wasn't because we aren't a good match but rather because of our circumstances (on his end the ugliness of getting screwed by that woman who he was living with before we met, on my end the dealings with my ex and n BOTH our ends it was financially getting screwed by all of the vultures).
Ya'll are both grown. As long as your son is A number 1 priority for you and your soon2b exwife (which it seems to be) and this new lady *gets that* then I don't see what the issue is.
I hope that you will find the happiness that you deserve (and wish the same for your ex).... this way it is a win/win situation for your son.
my son is everything to me and then some and the woman i am living with is so wanting to meet him but i think it is too soon. she wants him to move in with us later down the road because my wife isnt exactly the best at raising him. she completely understand that my wife and i are still friends and i still have to take care of them.
we dont have big issues to deal with in our personal lives that will clash or hinder our relationship. she doesnt have kids so its just her and I right now. our relationship grew extremely rapidly and we both dont know why but we love it.