well sort of.. there used to be this girl who i had the biggest hard on for. i was fat at the time.. then we didnt see each other for 2 years, i finally saw her at a party i went to and i was 190lb at about 9%.. she was alll over me.. i basiclly told her to get her superficial ass out of my face.. i was really happy with my self.. and now i get lots of women