Would you prefer a practitioner, therapist, doctor to have....

[wootoom]

is there a way to fix it?

ya not producing wastes of skin like yourself

 

[nangiggles]

It depends on what situation is. Can I learn how to quit doing drugs from someone young, prolly.

i have never seen a theropist before. But from life experience, it's those who just listen and aren't quick to give us advice about how to get over the feelings.

I hate hearing that the reason we lost our baby was because "God had a bigger plan" or some of the other stupid shit i would hear. Best help we had was people just shutting up, giving us a hug, and telling us they are praying for us.

So I guess I understand both sides. I don't think you really get or understand a miscariage, divorce, being cheated on, etc unless you actually go through it.

This is a complicated question/subject

Well there is were it gets tricky ER, no one can ever feel what you feel even if they have been though the same thing, I'm sure even your wife feels different emotions as you do with the whole ordeal, so thinking you can find someone that "understands" is unrealistic since pain and loss are personal and subjective feelings, what you do want is someone who knows about grief.

 

[zwhit]

Well there is were it gets tricky ER, no one can ever feel what you feel even if they have been though the same thing, I'm sure even your wife feels different emotions as you do with the whole ordeal, so thinking you can find someone that "understands" is unrealistic since pain and loss are personal and subjective feelings, what you do want is someone who knows about grief.

What you do want is someone who knows how to stfu

 

[EarthRider]

thus the reason i said it just depends on the person whether they are a good theropist. I have some people who try to comfort us by telling us there story of losing a child, which i don't understand how knowing there whole story will help. but anyway, we are doing fine. wifey and I got away for the weekend last weekend without the kids. so that was the best theropy we needed at that moment.

woot, i would agree with you, but my two kids are just so awesome and so damn cute

 

[wootoom]

Well there is were it gets tricky ER, no one can ever feel what you feel even if they have been though the same thing, I'm sure even your wife feels different emotions as you do with the whole ordeal, so thinking you can find someone that "understands" is unrealistic since pain and loss are personal and subjective feelings, what you do want is someone who knows about grief.

You haven't went through shit, therefore, you don't know shit

 

[EarthRider]

woot, it doesn't pay, when they are young they think they know everything and nobody can tell them different. I just let time show them the light

 

[wootoom]

woot, it doesn't pay, when they are young they think they know everything and nobody can tell them different. I just let time show them the light

What the fuck are you even talking about?

 

[WoodyO]

I have no idea what is going on in this thread.

 

[EarthRider]

i'm talking about how Americans are better than Canadians

 

[WoodyO]

Isn't WI part of Canada?