wife is of ZERO help w/ anything financial.

[Smurfy]

I get so aggravated with it sometimes, she tells me to hide all the porn, her mom is coming over tomm. to clean the house. She pays her mother $20 to come over once/wk and clean. Now, this would not bother me if the situation were a little different. Here is why I get pissed #1- my wife works p/t at some fucking 15-20 hr/wk job. I really dont see why we need a cleaning lady. #2- my mother in law has not ONCE looked for work in the past 2 years, and her and her husband are struggling. He busts his ass and she sits around. Now all of a sudden my wife thinks she needs to "help her" by letting her do this crap every week. #3- my old lady cant even pay 1 fucking bill by herself. NOT ONE. Granted she only makes like $200 a week working p/t but she cant pay her own car payment, cant pay our home phone, electric, nothing. I fucking do it all, everything. She is of zero help to me in any possible way financially. Not saying it isnt my responsibility to try to support us, but this is not the 1950's and we are not Ozzie and Harriet anymore. It takes 2 these days. I wish I stayed fucking single sometimes. Some bitches are just plain lazy and it's getting very tough to earn my respect anymore.

and you married her why?

at the very least take responsibility for your own poor decision to get involved in a lifelong commitment with someone you cant stand

 

[myway]

DUH!!!!!
HELLO!!!!!!!!
If we wanted to pay bills, WHY would we get married??!?!?!??!!?!?
j/k, lol.

I make as much as my hubby. We split everything down the middle. I'm kinda bummed because my job does not offer light duty and I will prolly get sent home from work(WITHOUT PAY) for a couple of months until after I have the baby, depending on how fast my belly grows. I'm gonna go nutz just sitting at home.

 

[heatherrae]

DUH!!!!!
HELLO!!!!!!!!
If we wanted to pay bills, WHY would we get married??!?!?!??!!?!?
j/k, lol.

I make as much as my hubby. We split everything down the middle. I'm kinda bummed because my job does not offer light duty and I will prolly get sent home from work(WITHOUT PAY) for a couple of months until after I have the baby, depending on how fast my belly grows. I'm gonna go nutz just sitting at home.

Yes, I can attest that it is boring, especially when you don't feel good enough to be out and about.

 

[myway]

Yes, I can attest that it is boring, especially when you don't feel good enough to be out and about.

I think you should try to have the baby on my birthday because I am cool.
September 20th. Mark it on your calender.

 

[layinback]

I get so aggravated with it sometimes, she tells me to hide all the porn, her mom is coming over tomm. to clean the house. She pays her mother $20 to come over once/wk and clean. Now, this would not bother me if the situation were a little different. Here is why I get pissed #1- my wife works p/t at some fucking 15-20 hr/wk job. I really dont see why we need a cleaning lady. #2- my mother in law has not ONCE looked for work in the past 2 years, and her and her husband are struggling. He busts his ass and she sits around. Now all of a sudden my wife thinks she needs to "help her" by letting her do this crap every week. #3- my old lady cant even pay 1 fucking bill by herself. NOT ONE. Granted she only makes like $200 a week working p/t but she cant pay her own car payment, cant pay our home phone, electric, nothing. I fucking do it all, everything. She is of zero help to me in any possible way financially. Not saying it isnt my responsibility to try to support us, but this is not the 1950's and we are not Ozzie and Harriet anymore. It takes 2 these days. I wish I stayed fucking single sometimes. Some bitches are just plain lazy and it's getting very tough to earn my respect anymore.

if you make 300k+ a year you wouldnt have to worry about trivial shit, you would have bigger shit to fight about!!! dude money is just a symbol. what you described in your post is relationship 101.dividing chores, what do you expect from each other, you dont feel your needs are gettin met and chances are she doesnt either. when i met my first wife (she refers to herself as dumbass #1) we made like 30k ayear combined. she worked as a waitress on the weekend and i was a jr. sales manager. neither one of us knew anything about relationships and it was a fucking nightmare. well 18 years later and wife #3 i finally got it right. i make 10 times more money and she doesnt work but that aint the secret to our success. we have learned to communicate our needs and not make each other "pay" for historical events. ppl are attracted to ppl that remind them of primary caregivers. the things that attract us initially wind up repelling us in short order, usually around the 2 year mark,thats when the endorphins have settled down and reality sets in. lots of folks feel the strain and start the splitting process, even if they stay together physically. whats really happening is a mutual working out of past traumas projected on to your love interest. all of this is subconscious and we are just automatons in a tragic play. when you "get" this, you guys can do something about it. most folks take a few xanax and start the bed hoppin game and land in the same relationship with another body. good luck to you and yours. i know first hand how painful this shit can be.

 

[bigmann245]

and you married her why?

at the very least take responsibility for your own poor decision to get involved in a lifelong commitment with someone you cant stand

i think the little head married her not the big head....lol

 

[Lestat]

this guy is my new favorite poster!

 

[bigmann245]

I think you should try to have the baby on my birthday because I am cool.
September 20th. Mark it on your calender.

when is your 30th? i know i should know this but i failed algebra and i cant figure out what the x and y are.

 

[Lestat]

Let me get this straight? Your wife is paying her mom ONLY 20 bucks a week to clean your house? You live in a shoe box or does your wife just hate her mom?

Christ, I pay my cleaning lady $300 eack week to clean. IF she were my mom I'd pay her double that so i could also have a clean conscience.....

$300 a week to clean?? come on now. You livin large in 15000 sq ft with like 10 bathrooms?

 

[bigmann245]

$300 a week to clean?? come on now. You livin large in 15000 sq ft with like 10 bathrooms?

shoot im an EF member, i piss $300 a week