Why is it that people with kids

[cindylou]

Think its okay to be rude just because they have kids?

Stuff like cancel plans last minute and expect you not to be a little pissed when the babysitter has an "emergency".

why cant husbands watch the kids one night ? Women never ask the GUY to watch the kids while she goes out with her friends.

and then they wonder why their friends drop off the face of the earth when they have kids.

 

[Raptorex]

For me, the worse thing is in Church when they let them act like they are in their playroom at home. UGH

 

[heatherrae]

Think its okay to be rude just because they have kids?

Stuff like cancel plans last minute and expect you not to be a little pissed when the babysitter has an "emergency".

why cant husbands watch the kids one night ? Women never ask the GUY to watch the kids while she goes out with her friends.

and then they wonder why their friends drop off the face of the earth when they have kids.

We aren't trying to be rude and are often torn about wanting to please our friends/families/lovers AND be a good parent. Plus, we hopefully have our friends for many, many years, but we only have our child's first year once, etc.

 

[cindylou]

For me, the worse thing is in Church when they let them act like they are in their playroom at home. UGH

I am quickly beginning to hate the haughty women in the "kids club." They think they are so smart and responsible for having kids before 25. lol

oh, and the church thing bugs me too. thats why they have the nurseries. Why dont all the mom's take their babies to the nursery while at chuch? lol

 

[dabuffguy]

family first. Sucks ass if you get blown off, but they gotta take care for numero uno. You should be more understanding even if it is frequent and it pisses you off. Kids are a hassle. If the guy refuses to watch the kids without mommy, he's an irresponsible dutch.



MM,

for real. When I see little kids wandering up and down the aisles, throwing cheerios around, and crap. Sit yuor kids' butt down and tell him to be quiet. geez.

 

[cindylou]

We aren't trying to be rude and are often torn about wanting to please our friends/families/lovers AND be a good parent. Plus, we hopefully have our friends for many, many years, but we only have our child's first year once, etc.

I know but some things should be important - like this date we had was important. It was important for her to make this one date. It might be the end of our friendship.

 

[cindylou]

family first. Sucks ass if you get blown off, but they gotta take care for numero uno. You should be more understanding even if it is frequent and it pisses you off. Kids are a hassle. If the guy refuses to watch the kids without mommy, he's an irresponsible dutch.



MM,

for real. When I see little kids wandering up and down the aisles, throwing cheerios around, and crap. Sit yuor kids' butt down and tell him to be quiet. geez.

Yeah, and I normally try to be understanding...but she's got a husband and two parents too.... I mean wtf.

she just didnt want to go.

 

[heatherrae]

I know but some things should be important - like this date we had was important. It was important for her to make this one date. It might be the end of our friendship.

So, you had a special meeting and her babysitter canceled on her? Is that what you meant?

When your babysitter flakes on you, it basically means that you are involuntarily grounded...lol. It doesn't sound like she could help it. What would you have liked for her to do differently?

 

[heatherrae]

Yeah, and I normally try to be understanding...but she's got a husband and two parents too.... I mean wtf.

she just didnt want to go.

Oh, well, that may be the case then. I don't have anyone else to watch mine when a babysitter flakes on me. Maybe her husband is an incapable idiot or refuses to watch the baby...lol?

No telling.

 

[cindylou]

So, you had a special meeting and her babysitter canceled on her? Is that what you meant?

When your babysitter flakes on you, it basically means that you are involuntarily grounded...lol. It doesn't sound like she could help it. What would you have liked for her to do differently?

Have her fiance watch her kids for her?