What possesses some people..

[Smurfy]

to decide to come spot you while you are in the middle of a set? Someone you don't know even. I;m confused by this. I mean where do people get the damn nerve to come over to my bench and put their hands near my bar? WTF>

 

[Smurfy]

If i was a man, no one would do that to me. They prolly think since Im a girl, i must need help.

 

[vinylgroover]

relax......i've saved plenty of people who 'didn't' need help over the years, guys and girls.

 

[Smurfy]

but it wasnt a save by any means. im talking im on the 5th rep of an 8 rep set.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

maybe it's the "damsel in distress" thing...they think they're going to save you so you will sleep with them.

 

[Smurfy]

lol

 

[big4life]

I have never had that happen at my gym, and I don't recall ever seeing it happen. The only thing I can think is that he thought that would be a way of breaking the ice with you.

 

[vinylgroover]

maybe it's the "damsel in distress" thing...they think they're going to save you so you will sleep with them.

i usually follow a spot with a dinner invitation.

 

[javaguru]

Probably just hitting on you. When I was dating my future ex-wife some dude did the same thing to her and started to chat her up after the set until I walked up and he put 2+2 together and ran off. She still thought he was "just being nice."

 

[WalkingBeast]

If anyone comes near my bar, they get scared away real fast.