very very terrible. my life is fuc#$% (serious)

[BO-DEN]

its a child , a human being we are talking about here..not a car or house.."let it go" ....horrible


and they dont know anything about the baby being deformed, all he said was that his girl was on some medication, him being on juice wont have any affect on the baby. babies are born healthy under much worse conditions. to say let it go because your assuming something may be wrong is fucked up.

thoes are your morals hommie.... not mine....

i think its more cruel to have a child with 2 fingers and a leg growing out of his back.

if he is healthy then have the baby.

if my son or daughter were diformed or unhealthy.... i would end its life.

cause thats what i would have wanted if i were born that way.

suite yourself

but it is a shame to live like that.

this would never happen to me cause i would never have unprotected sex unless i wanted kids.

BO-DEN

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

this would never happen to me cause i would never have unprotected sex unless i wanted kids.

BO-DEN

youre right, it was a big mistake. i know. that has already been established.

dealing with it is the issue now.

 

[BO-DEN]

youre right, it was a big mistake. i know. that has already been established.

dealing with it is the issue now.

dude... regardless of what i said eairlier, i really wish you the best ... and i pray he (your son) becomes a great strong man.

if you choose to have him..

BO-DEN

 

[WalkingBeast]

I see my condolences have gone unappreciated.

 

[Scarlett33]

Hey, she's only 7wks you don't have to decide right now. In a few weeks she can have some testing and ultra sounds done that might give you a better idea of what your are dealing with. I'm almost 12 weeks pregnant myself, and I've had several routein ultra sounds done and a test called triple screen, its a blood test for several defects that everyone has now days. My whole point is, if you will wait afew weeks you can get more info and make a more informed decision. Have you guys had an ultra sound to see if the heart beat is there and is a normal rate? That is the first indicator of a normal fetus. That is not to say that something couldn't still be wrong, but first things first. i wish you both the best.

 

[redshirt27se]

Hey, she's only 7wks you don't have to decide right now. In a few weeks she can have some testing and ultra sounds done that might give you a better idea of what your are dealing with. I'm almost 12 weeks pregnant myself, and I've had several routein ultra sounds done and a test called triple screen, its a blood test for several defects that everyone has now days. My whole point is, if you will wait afew weeks you can get more info and make a more informed decision. Have you guys had an ultra sound to see if the heart beat is there and is a normal rate? That is the first indicator of a normal fetus. That is not to say that something couldn't still be wrong, but first things first. i wish you both the best.

true but i believe the window for termination is small after x number of weeks. not sure though.

 

[WalkingBeast]

true but i believe the window for termination is small after x number of weeks. not sure though.

The bastard in the red suit? Is it you??

 

[Aerojaxx]

After reading 4 pages of posts concerning your difficult situation I know that I will be standing as a minority with my opinion. I want to be liked and I want to develop friendship on EF. What I am about to say will not accomplish this desire. I can sense that somewhere deep inside the fabric of who you are, you know what I am about to say is the truth. You acted irresponsibly as did your girlfriend. For every action there is a just recompence. Have the child. If the child is born with problems, they will be yours and your girlfriends problems and responsibility. The child you will love. With all of the heartache from any problems the child may posess, character will be forged into who you are. A man who takes responsibilty for his actions.

Years from now when the final verdict is read....you will be remembered as a man who took responsibilty for his actions, learned from them and moved on. A man who loved his child enough that he could not deny it the right to live.

Sorry everyone...I couldn't help myself. I can live with the fact that I will be ousted from this great circle.

I had decided to never visit this post again...I can honestly say as I left, I was truly troubled. In fact, I had decided to steer clear of the Chat & Converstation board altogether. However, while reviewing the Training Board I noticed my Karma had jumped 23 points, which I found very shocking. Occasionally, a man must forsake popularity and speak his convictions. To my surprise and delight, my opinion may very well be the majority speaking.

Juiced many here at EF will be anticipating seeing you come through this dilema. I am will be very intrigued with the outcome, but someone much more important than anyone on EF will also be interested in the outcome.

My best wishes and prayers are with you bro....

 

[Aerojaxx]

I had decided to never visit this post again...I can honestly say as I left, I was truly troubled. In fact, I had decided to steer clear of the Chat & Converstation board altogether. However, while reviewing the Training Board I noticed my Karma had jumped 23 points, which I found very shocking. Occasionally, a man must forsake popularity and speak his convictions. To my surprise and delight, my opinion may very well be the majority speaking.

Juiced many here at EF will be anticipating seeing you come through this dilema. I will be very intrigued with the outcome, but someone much more important than anyone on EF will also be interested in the outcome.

My best wishes and prayers are with you bro....

 

[Tiervexx]

I had decided to never visit this post again...I can honestly say as I left, I was truly troubled. In fact, I had decided to steer clear of the Chat & Converstation board altogether. However, while reviewing the Training Board I noticed my Karma had jumped 23 points, which I found very shocking. Occasionally, a man must forsake popularity and speak his convictions. To my surprise and delight, my opinion may very well be the majority speaking.

Juiced many here at EF will be anticipating seeing you come through this dilema. I am will be very intrigued with the outcome, but someone much more important than anyone on EF will also be interested in the outcome.

My best wishes and prayers are with you bro....

LOL, the only stance you could take on any issue that would get the whole board against you is if you supported steriod laws, LOL.