very very terrible. my life is fuc#$% (serious)

[juiceddreadlocks]

i dont even know why im posting this. it is beyond messed up on many levels. im in the biggest moral dilema of my life.


i just found out my gf is pregnant. 7 weeks today(apparently happened the last time we slept together). great, right? well it would be had she not been taking something class x for pregnancy (12.5mg ed winstrol), something class c (a commonly prescribed headache medication), been staying up all night working nights, not eating well, and having a genetic link to high risk (although apparently normal until 8mo) pregnancies. she has been supposed to get on bc after her next cycle(never happened).

im in the biggest moral dilema of my life. ive always been anti abortion. totally. 100%. well now that a physician (graduated from harvard) has told us to terminate the pregancy, i dont know what to do. i cant eat, sleep, or even drink any water im so sick all the time.

an ob/gyn from around where we live said "there's no problem with females taking androgens and pregnancy", yeah okay his credibility is out the window.

shes also been taking ephedra like me to be able to stay awake and work nights and be normal college students during the day, and she runs 10miles a day a lot, has never been regular, and sometimes goes 6mo without a complete menstrual cycle.

 

[big4life]

First sit down and talk through all the options with her. Then both of you go to a doctor and tell him/her all the facts, and ask him what his recommendation is. Good luck to both of you.

 

[Mr. dB]

If there would appear to be very little chance that this pregnancy can result in a healthy, viable offspring, termination would seem to be the best bet not only for the mother but probably the most humane thing for the child as well, sad to say.

 

[mordy]

Dude, the worst thing you can do is bring a child into this world when you are not prepared and it does not have the best chances to live a good life. Your decision though.

 

[synch22]

abort the baby , i would not risk it, and i know someone who aborted a baby and u know what if they hadnt their life would be fucked up right now he did what he had to do at the time.

BTW i think that if u abort early enough its just an egg in the begining stage not a life just yet, imo dont flame

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

If there would appear to be very little chance that this pregnancy can result in a healthy, viable offspring, termination would seem to be the best bet not only for the mother but probably the most humane thing for the child as well, sad to say.

this is why i stood you up last night broly.


i agree with this statement totally. her and i have talked through it, done research on the net(its wild how politically motivated this subject is) and talked to more than one source for info. im just at loss im so upset with my irresponsibility (although the exact reasons are debatable and would acquit me of most people's negative opinions).

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

what do you all think about the ob gyn's opinion?

 

[strongsmartsexy]

what do you all think about the ob gyn's opinion?

Get another opinion.

 

[biteme]

Goodluck JM.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

Goodluck JM.

thanks bro, how are things for you?