trying to date a woman from work,

[-SD-]

I say see her every other day for a couple weeks TOPS, for a couple minutes each time, TOPS. Once again you work with her, so nither one of you are going anywhere soon. Trust me, Ive worked at the same company for 8 years and i had nothing but time, like a prison sentence, to slowly work the game on whatever dingbats were working there at the time. BLEED IT OUT.

 

[-Ariel-]

Yeah, U could be right SD.
I just don't think Mag's got in him.
It smells like he's gonna jump the gun.
It takes restraint to pull what either of us is advising.
Just don't see it happening.
Restraint... takes patience... patience takes discipline... discipline takes WILL...
You got the Will Mag?

 

[javaguru]

See, superdave is right on the money. Thing is I don't like Evolutionary Psychology, however there are some partial truths to it. For example, women have a subconcious mechanism when it comes to flirtation... it's an evaluation technique, that is why they give you the mixed signal routine. You move a little forward, then a little back, a little forward... now if you can hold the course, and move in the a harmonious 'in step' rhythm... You are solid.

Too metaphysical SuperDave? LOL nice Karmic Message Bastage..

Okay, I'll get more specific. Here is the thing. If you are overeager, the thing is this says that you are a sensation bound, fickle mother fucker. -Not really, I'm exaggerating- What it tips the girl off, is that you do not understand the step by step process that success in life requires. It signals that you are not a winner. All is process, nothing, nobody is above the process of building. The magic is understanding this and abiding by it.

So here is what you do, become a daily part of her life. However, do not smother her. You have to see her a couple of minutes daily, The intervals I"m not sure, I dunno 10 minutes to 15 tops. Make her Laugh... I know easier said than done, but bear with me, it''s the principle that's important. So, you build this idea and habit that you are a part of her daily life, for 2 weeks. I would not try and sneak a coffee or lunch again for another week... Anyway after 2 weeks, make the move.

Again, I'm not C-Dub-, Lartinos, or PDaddy, Golden Delicious, but I've done allright.
It sounds like you genuinely like her, so if you wanna have a shot at life or anything for that matter, don't skip steps, get in the habit of following and abiding by process.

There is your Tony Robbins get in her pants advice.

Now Pics?

Personally, I consider psychology pseudoscience...they have no real measurable standards unlike physics, chemistry or biology and their founders have been proven wrong....Jung and Freud are prominent examples.

 

[-SD-]

Yeah, U could be right SD.
I just don't think Mag's got in him.
It smells like he's gonna jump the gun.
It takes restraint to pull what either of us is advising.
Just don't see it happening.
Restraint... takes patience... patience takes discipline... discipline takes WILL...
You got the Will Mag?

then again he is still a padowan in his 20's so it may be all a moot point
lolololollo

 

[-Ariel-]

then again he is still a padowan in his 20's so it may be all a moot point
lolololollo

LOLOLOLO
You rawk.

 

[EnderJE]

See, superdave is right on the money. Thing is I don't like Evolutionary Psychology, however there are some partial truths to it. For example, women have a subconcious mechanism when it comes to flirtation... it's an evaluation technique, that is why they give you the mixed signal routine. You move a little forward, then a little back, a little forward... now if you can hold the course, and move in the a harmonious 'in step' rhythm... You are solid.

Too metaphysical SuperDave? LOL nice Karmic Message Bastage..

Okay, I'll get more specific. Here is the thing. If you are overeager, the thing is this says that you are a sensation bound, fickle mother fucker. -Not really, I'm exaggerating- What it tips the girl off, is that you do not understand the step by step process that success in life requires. It signals that you are not a winner. All is process, nothing, nobody is above the process of building. The magic is understanding this and abiding by it.

So here is what you do, become a daily part of her life. However, do not smother her. You have to see her a couple of minutes daily, The intervals I"m not sure, I dunno 10 minutes to 15 tops. Make her Laugh... I know easier said than done, but bear with me, it''s the principle that's important. So, you build this idea and habit that you are a part of her daily life, for 2 weeks. I would not try and sneak a coffee or lunch again for another week... Anyway after 2 weeks, make the move.

Again, I'm not C-Dub-, Lartinos, or PDaddy, Golden Delicious, but I've done allright.
It sounds like you genuinely like her, so if you wanna have a shot at life or anything for that matter, don't skip steps, get in the habit of following and abiding by process.

There is your Tony Robbins get in her pants advice.

Now Pics?

You should take that on the road.

 

[-Ariel-]

Personally, I consider psychology pseudoscience...they have no real measurable standards unlike physics, chemistry or biology and their founders have been proven wrong....Jung and Freud are prominent examples.

Depends on what you consider truth...
Seems like to me you consider the labels objective and subjective to be real and not labels..
Seems like to me you consider truth to be an idea that is based on fundamental agreement.
However what is true for you may not be true for say... a Frog, a Cat or a Deer, each which have their Sense configuration different than a human being.
You are basing truth on observation limited to 5 senses.
What is true then for you appears to be based on AGREEMENT...
No...
This IS NOT TRUTH... this is AGREEMENT.
Truth is not based on the IS and IS NOT... that leads to Contradiction.

Truth is about the correct ration between qualities, the correct intervals between qualities...
This is why music represents one of the finest examples of Truth.
Truth is eternal Truth is life...
To say the Jung and Freud were wrong, in what sense?
Using what Quantum Physics, Molecular Biology...
That's like Using a Hammer to Eat Soup.
Funny.

 

[-Ariel-]

You should take that on the road.

LOL
Thanx Ender.

I rather enjoyed making that post.

 

[javaguru]

Depends on what you consider truth...
Seems like to me you consider the labels objective and subjective to be real and not labels..
Seems like to me you consider truth to be an idea that is based on fundamental agreement.
However what is true for you may not be true for say... a Frog, a Cat or a Deer, each which have their Sense configuration different than a human being.
You are basing truth on observation limited to 5 senses.
What is true then for you appears to be based on AGREEMENT...
No...
This IS NOT TRUTH... this is AGREEMENT.
Truth is not based on the IS and IS NOT... that leads to Contradiction.

Truth is about the correct ration between qualities, the correct intervals between qualities...

This is why music represents one of the finest examples of Truth.
Truth is eternal Truth is life...
To say the Jung and Freud were wrong, in what sense?
Using what Quantum Physics, Molecular Biology...
That's like Using a Hammer to Eat Soup.
Funny.

Stop the subjective argumentation. I know 2+2=4 because it's true and provable. I lament deconstructionism being applied to all academic pursuits.
Not all beliefs are equal and survive critical scrutiny.

 

[-SD-]

Depends on what you consider truth...
Seems like to me you consider the labels objective and subjective to be real and not labels..
Seems like to me you consider truth to be an idea that is based on fundamental agreement.
However what is true for you may not be true for say... a Frog, a Cat or a Deer, each which have their Sense configuration different than a human being.
You are basing truth on observation limited to 5 senses.
What is true then for you appears to be based on AGREEMENT...
No...
This IS NOT TRUTH... this is AGREEMENT.
Truth is not based on the IS and IS NOT... that leads to Contradiction.

Truth is about the correct ration between qualities, the correct intervals between qualities...
This is why music represents one of the finest examples of Truth.
Truth is eternal Truth is life...
To say the Jung and Freud were wrong, in what sense?
Using what Quantum Physics, Molecular Biology...
That's like Using a Hammer to Eat Soup.
Funny.

jesus christ bor, we are talking about two people in their 20s who work toegether
no need for cosminc exexiticntialism
im drunk and giving advice on thid threaed
that is all that is needed
but you are still my gamma ray nig