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Ok really now. I have been abused horribly on this site! BY many.
Any how, IMHO the guys here do it for "shits and giggles" they see that you get all worked up and enjoy it....So they try at every chance that they get.
A few nameless people here remind me of little boys in school that sit behind you and pull your pig tails. Nothing harmful going on. Try not to take it so seriously!
Any how, IMHO the guys here do it for "shits and giggles" they see that you get all worked up and enjoy it....So they try at every chance that they get.
A few nameless people here remind me of little boys in school that sit behind you and pull your pig tails. Nothing harmful going on. Try not to take it so seriously!
Angel said:
ah... believe me, It doesn't get my thongs in a bunch... not now not ever. EF is only one click away from being logged off and I can walk away, still smiling. I once had a boy that thought pulling my pigtails would get my attention.... bwahahaha... little did he know.
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Lots of chicks in denial up in this here thread.
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You know I was actually reflecting on that post and I have an exception to the part about looking at the girl's relationship with her dad and boy's relationship with his mother.
Growing up I had a WONDERFUL relationship with my father as I was his favored child. (As wonderful as you can with a volatile alcoholic that is) My brother was my mother's favorite and nobody gave a rat's ass sadly about my sister as she was a *surprize*.
My mother fucked both me (you all know how fucked up I have been) AND my brother up (my father finished fucking up my brother the little bit that she didnt and he is now and has been for all of his adult life an abusive addict) and my sister who turned out normal and healthy and is in a wonderfully loving marriage of over 10 years was essentially ignored by both parents.
I asked some shrinks how was it that my sister and I grew up in the same household with similar experiences (though thank God she didnt encounter near the awfull shit I did) and she chose a WONDERFUL life partner and I chose the freaking bottom of the barrell. (I actually hand-picked my brother-on-law and interfered in a good way to help them end up together but ultimately it was HER choice and a good one at that.)
Their answer shocked me.
"Your sister is ok now, due in large part because she was raised by YOU."
And finally I want to pass on one bit of knowledge that an EXCELLENT shrink imparted to me years ago.
"We will ALL fuck our kids up to some extent. Even the most well-meaning parent. Such is the nature of the relationship." (And yes, this man NEVER cursed but this time those were the words he used.) "The goal of good parenting is to raise our children with an ACCEPTABLE LEVEL of fucked-upness."
Then he told me:
"Do you know what it is called when we stop blaming our parents for how they fucked us up and assume personal responsibility and TRY to fix it?"
"THAT IS CALLED MATURITY."
My point in saying all this is I took exception to the notion that we are damned to be fucked up for the rest of our lives because our parents made it so.
WE ALL HAVE A CHOICE.
Growing up I had a WONDERFUL relationship with my father as I was his favored child. (As wonderful as you can with a volatile alcoholic that is) My brother was my mother's favorite and nobody gave a rat's ass sadly about my sister as she was a *surprize*.
My mother fucked both me (you all know how fucked up I have been) AND my brother up (my father finished fucking up my brother the little bit that she didnt and he is now and has been for all of his adult life an abusive addict) and my sister who turned out normal and healthy and is in a wonderfully loving marriage of over 10 years was essentially ignored by both parents.
I asked some shrinks how was it that my sister and I grew up in the same household with similar experiences (though thank God she didnt encounter near the awfull shit I did) and she chose a WONDERFUL life partner and I chose the freaking bottom of the barrell. (I actually hand-picked my brother-on-law and interfered in a good way to help them end up together but ultimately it was HER choice and a good one at that.)
Their answer shocked me.
"Your sister is ok now, due in large part because she was raised by YOU."
And finally I want to pass on one bit of knowledge that an EXCELLENT shrink imparted to me years ago.
"We will ALL fuck our kids up to some extent. Even the most well-meaning parent. Such is the nature of the relationship." (And yes, this man NEVER cursed but this time those were the words he used.) "The goal of good parenting is to raise our children with an ACCEPTABLE LEVEL of fucked-upness."
Then he told me:
"Do you know what it is called when we stop blaming our parents for how they fucked us up and assume personal responsibility and TRY to fix it?"
"THAT IS CALLED MATURITY."
My point in saying all this is I took exception to the notion that we are damned to be fucked up for the rest of our lives because our parents made it so.
WE ALL HAVE A CHOICE.
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manny78 said:
Treating EVERYONE (including us lowly females) with a modicum of respect.
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Frisky said:not flaming on anyone, male or female... but would like an honest answer. EF, is getting close to 50/50 eh...
if most women venture intoC&C and voice ANY kind of opinion, (that is on an open thread asking for it) they are dragged down lower than dirt. I've been here for years and have seen it time and time again.
AND DON'T GIVE ME THIS BULL SHIT ABOUT WHAT EF MALE FUCKED WHAT EF FEMALE... it takes two
Still the same ol bull shit!
I've taken people disagree with me over and over, and that is fine, but I'll be gosh dang if you disagree with certain members, you are a cunt or a bictch or ........ well ya name it.
EF is and should be versatile... be it male female pt of view or etc... seems lately the females that log on are pushed away when they don't bow down low fucking self esteem assholes that expect for women to be inferior
I guess I'll always be a bitch in these peeps eyes, because I REFUSE to not bow down to these assholes
I've been on the recieving end of being bashed, treated inferior because I AM FEMALE. Its really starting to get old, and if George wants a very versitile forum things need to be done about this shit. I have been called every name in the book... and im all cool with that. BUT That is NOT a way to conduct business and get members. The fucking ego men here find every damn way possible to degrage the women here whilst at the same time post up coke whores and sluts. Ya know what.... keep your opinion to yourself ... as you ask us to.
BRR,George,Digger,... this has to be addressed... I help tons via pm.. as a member... not even a mod. Yet we have these ass wipes degrading when myself or other active chicks that compete put pics up because the fuckers are jealous... YES jealous because the are fucking weak and couldn't lift a gosh damn double whopper.
If they aren't so damn envious why do they continue to hound and hound on us? I know C&C is totally different from the womens forum or the training forum, but it doesn't matter when or where things are posted there is constant negativity. This wards a lot of us off from suggesting people to come here.
What a crock of shit. Why does everything have to be sexist, racist, etc? I just assumed that getting flamed was part of posting on the C&C forum. Hell, I have started very few threads on C&C but I've been flamed in everyone of them and almost always by an EF female... and NO, none of my posts were directed or even associated with the degradation of women. If you need someone’s acceptance/approval on an internet forum to feel "equal" then your problem lies much deeper than your concerns of getting flamed.
This thread actually shocks me somewhat. Most of the women I have met on here seem like very strong willed women. I think most of them just choose to talk shit right back. I mean that’s what I do if a guy is flaming me. Isn’t that truly what makes us equals? The fact that we talk shit regardless of gender. If coddling is what you want then you should have never pushed for change… remember, that’s what women use to have.
