Hey Bro,
I feel your pain. But don't let that shit get you down. The best defense is to look like the biggest, baddest mofo out there. That's my strategy. I'm 5' 9", 265 lbs, 9% B.F. and NOBODY gives me any shit to my face. I know I look like a scary son-of-a-bitch. When I walk down the hallways at work most people step aside. Everywhere I go I spot people eying me up. In the gym I'm respected by all. I'm sure most people suspect I'm on gear but they don't say shit about it to me nor do I care what they think.
I know that sounds pretty egotistical and narcissistic but I don't really give a shit. I enjoy the attention and yes I'll admit it I think it's cool that most people who don't know me are intimidated by my presence.
However, I don't fuck with anyone and mind my own business. I go to work everyday and give it my best effort. I go to the gym every evening and give that my best effort. I love and raise my children the best that I can. I love and respect my wife and give her the best man I can be. I'm a responsible tax paying citizen law abiding citizen (other than gear which is another soap box of why gear shouldn't be illegal I can get on but won't). I respect and am very caring and compassionate of others. I will do nearly anything to help anyone. My lifestyle hurts no one and I am not ashamed of who I am or what I do. I am a bodybuilder and damn proud of it!
Be proud of who and what you are. Only a very very small minority of people have what it takes. Like I always say when people say, "I wish I looked like you". I always come back with, "If it were easy everyone would look like me".
I've worked long and hard to be where I am and I know steroids may have played a part in me being the bodybuilder that I am but it wasn't just the drugs that did it. I've paid and continue to pay my dues to be where I am. I have many years of training and nutrition behind me and I was blessed with good genetics too.
So in conclusion fuck the fat asses, pencil necks and the ignorant assholes of the world who talk shit behind our backs they're just jealous.