i practiced talking to some ladies tonight

[Sub-Zero]

its really hard, because i never talk about shit unless i have an interest in it and only even talk to my friends to ask a question or say something, its not constant talking, ya we will tell a relevent story here and there, but other than that we just chill and dont talk.

the people iv met my age that are good at talking to girls basically never shut the fuck up ever even not around them, so i think thats correlated.

anway, as someone who doesnt talk much, i was dabbling with asking point blank semi personal but not weird questions, or making blanket statements. when shit started to get complicated or id forget what we were talking about id shoot out a "your right" (which was the most helpful phrase of the night), and "ya i guess", which also helped.

also, i realized the reason i hate talking to girls my age. they all need to be liked and have attention so badly and act super fake to get it to the point where its not like talking to a human being. a couple girls that i know for a fact hate me and one threatened to call the cops on me a while back, and were acting super nice to me. i tried to make it awkward but no matter what i said she just wouldnt. not to mention the shit they talk about.

people i knew as little girls now i come back and see them after a year and they are talking about how they are sluts and stuff now and dont like boyfriends cause that way they dont have to be loyal. people who the year before had never even seen a penis. basically in my agegroup its trendy and awsome to be a slut, and talk about it.

all girls talk about is themselves, other people (never the person they are talking to, unless its a fight), and being sluts

 

[lilj888]

no

 

[calveless wonder]

so you're basically says girls gossip, are sluts and talk about themselves? omg!!

lol

of course my negro. many are,especially at that age, but stop generalizing and already assuming that before an interaction. most chicks your age are going to want to talk about partying, fashion, relationships, animals, etc. shit like that. some girls though, get a bit deeper. if a girl is an idiot, and has nothing to bring to a conversation, then talk to someone more entertaining

but,what do you want?
do you want a relationship?
Do you want to bang a bunch of girls to get some sexual experience?
do you want to be a pimp who can dial an assortment of numbers at any time to have sex?
or do you just want to be able to go up to any woman, at any time and have an interesting conversation?

stop being vague, define what you want.

more importantly, what do you want out of an interaction with talking to a chick?
You just answered your own question. chicks love talking about themselves. you just have to ask them open ended questions. there's one thing people love talking about. themselves, and their problems. i think that applies to anyone. i use this in any sales job i've ever had. open ended questions = money in the bank..

it's not about babbling on and talking alot. in fact, most people hate that or just assume you're the clown/entertainer (unless of course, you're a good storyteller. THAT is a great thing to be).
asking the right questions, and shutting the fuck up is the key to being a good conversationalist.

Another thing is environmental/social observation. ALot of people love talking about that...and it makes for good convo. That's why people love comedians.

you hardly ever shut the fuck up on here lol...just start projecting this inward thoughts outward. who gives a fuck, really?

 

[lilj888]

were did u meet these girls to talk to? and how old are u?

u need to stop hating on the girls. u seem like ur asking for a girl that is a mute or a mime.

and bro when u get to know girls there different they get more comfortable and more deeper with u.

WTF tho its girls man if u dont like em turn to dudes, all girls are different and u need to get to kno them better to kno that.

pce out a-town down

 

[Sub-Zero]

so you're basically says girls gossip, are sluts and talk about themselves? omg!!

lol

of course my negro. many are,especially at that age, but stop generalizing and already assuming that before an interaction. most chicks your age are going to want to talk about partying, fashion, relationships, animals, etc. shit like that. some girls though, get a bit deeper. if a girl is an idiot, and has nothing to bring to a conversation, then talk to someone more entertaining

but,what do you want?
do you want a relationship?
Do you want to bang a bunch of girls to get some sexual experience?
do you want to be a pimp who can dial an assortment of numbers at any time to have sex?
or do you just want to be able to go up to any woman, at any time and have an interesting conversation?

stop being vague, define what you want.

more importantly, what do you want out of an interaction with talking to a chick?
You just answered your own question. chicks love talking about themselves. you just have to ask them open ended questions. there's one thing people love talking about. themselves, and their problems. i think that applies to anyone. i use this in any sales job i've ever had. open ended questions = money in the bank..

it's not about babbling on and talking alot. in fact, most people hate that or just assume you're the clown/entertainer (unless of course, you're a good storyteller. THAT is a great thing to be).
asking the right questions, and shutting the fuck up is the key to being a good conversationalist.

Another thing is environmental/social observation. ALot of people love talking about that...and it makes for good convo. That's why people love comedians.

you hardly ever shut the fuck up on here lol...just start projecting this inward thoughts outward. who gives a fuck, really?

i probably talk in real life the same amount i send posts on EF. ill respond, make a statement, and not really have a conversation.

i dont really want anything, i was just making observations.

a rich hot model would be cool to have too

 

[calveless wonder]

i probably talk in real life the same amount i send posts on EF. ill respond, make a statement, and not really have a conversation.

i dont really want anything, i was just making observations.

a rich hot model would be cool to have too

lol.....i was just joking about you never shutting the fuck up. but you seem to talk enough on here.

you obviously want something bro. you don't go out and try to talk to chicks and not want something out of it.

conversations are easy to have. that's one thing i've never had a problem with. you can go on about the same conversation assuming it's interesting for a long time, or its tangents. you don't just make a statement that isn't going to illicit a response. or you follow a statement by a question, related to it. you know?
obviously the topic dulls down, you switch to something else. again, with an open ended question. this doesn't have to apply to girls, just in general

 

[Sub-Zero]

were did u meet these girls to talk to? and how old are u?

u need to stop hating on the girls. u seem like ur asking for a girl that is a mute or a mime.

and bro when u get to know girls there different they get more comfortable and more deeper with u.

WTF tho its girls man if u dont like em turn to dudes, all girls are different and u need to get to kno them better to kno that.

pce out a-town down

that sounds like fun

 

[Sub-Zero]

lol.....i was just joking about you never shutting the fuck up. but you seem to talk enough on here.

you obviously want something bro. you don't go out and try to talk to chicks and not want something out of it.

my friend recently made friends with this new kid who all he thinks about is having to talk to girls and meeting girls, and my friend is starting to invite people over alot so i used to just hang out with a few close friends all the time but now they are inviting girls and shit over to try and bang them i guess, so since i hang out with those kids every night and now thye hang out with girls, that meansi hang out with girls too

conversations are easy to have. that's one thing i've never had a problem with. you can go on about the same conversation assuming it's interesting for a long time, or its tangents. you don't just make a statement that isn't going to illicit a response. or you follow a statement by a question, related to it. you know?
obviously the topic dulls down, you switch to something else. again, with an open ended question. this doesn't have to apply to girls, just in general

its never interesting cause i already said all they talk about is being sluts and stuff, and you cant use logic with them which is why "your right" is always helpful when discussing something.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

hey, Mr Morality, can i ask...if you could be a slut too, would you?

 

[calveless wonder]

my friend recently made friends with this new kid who all he thinks about is having to talk to girls and meeting girls, and my friend is starting to invite people over alot so i used to just hang out with a few close friends all the time but now they are inviting girls and shit over to try and bang them i guess, so since i hang out with those kids every night and now thye hang out with girls, that meansi hang out with girls too

its never interesting cause i already said all they talk about is being sluts and stuff, and you cant use logic with them which is why "your right" is always helpful when discussing something.

sounds like a bunch of cumdumpsters. these are not high value girls whatsoever if they're just talking about being sluts. they're low self esteem whores who have to bring attention to that.

definetely not the type of girls you'd want to start practicing conversation with. that's like asking vegans how to get big
if anything, don't "try". just have fun, bust their balls and they'll probably want your dick because you don't care. but don't be the guy that doesn't care and just doesn't say anything (if your goal is to get laid)