To the original poster, I feel bad that your thread got hijacked. Check out the 5x5 stuff on this board to get an idea of what a sound training plan should look like. You need to squat, pull, and press. You need constants like days/sets/reps so that progress can be measured and you just don't go by "feel".
You want to gradually and consistently add weight to the bar on a squat and a select pull and a select press, you should train your core (abs and low back) as well. Eat nutritious foods. You can't limit yourself to tuna and broccoli like a lot of people on a Bodybuilding board will stupidly suggest because you can't be 8% bodyfat and expect to make gains or even perform optimally. But, don't eat a bunch of nutritiously worthless garbage like doughnuts and cupcakes either.
For reading, go to Ironmind.com and look into a subscription to MILO, stay away from popular bodybuilding magazines, unless you either want to just look at the girls in there OR have a good laugh at the outright lies they call "training advice". If you must flip through a news stand mag, Ironman is probably the best simply because of Bill Starr, Randall Strossen, and the occasional write-up by CS Sloan or Keith Wassung, but the rest of it sucks. Once you understand productive training, you can pick this stuff out for yourself.
If training doesn't center around increasing capacity in compound lifts, it is crap. Don't be too complicated at this stage and horse around with swiss balls, and goofy tempos and cadences, or accomodating resistance or any sort of gimmicky shit, just get strong at squats, pulls, and presses, simple as that at this stage in the game, if you can't progress with the basics at your stage you either need to learn how to lift or how to eat or both.