chris302001 i was just curious?

[-Ariel-]

I don't understand what is so enticing about a man's soon-2-b ex-wife's myspace.

I mean, yea for a second the scenario put forth seemed pretty juicy but as it has been revealed ad nausuem, both parties are grown and have marriages that for all intents and purposes are OVER even though the paperwork has not been finalized. Shit, this is almost as silly as my ex-husband putting forth years later that I "cheated" on him. Ummmmmmm just because I didn't doink a man in front of him that does not equal skulking around and cheating. I thought I was crystal clear when I told my ex to his face, "The line forms to the right buddy boy and YOU AINT IN IT." I kicked my ex out in JAN 2001. It took me till JUN 2003 to finally LEGALLY get rid of his sorry ass... and to THIS DAY even though I've remarried, over two years now he files motion after motion hoping to catch a glimpse of me in court and regularly masterbates to my pics online... So? He's going to be sorely disappointed later this month as:

1. He will be forced to masterbate over MY HUSBAND'S image as he will be the one to appear, NOT ME.

2. He ain't getting a fucking cent from me OR my husband.

3. I will have my girls sooner or later and there is not a fucking thing he can do about it.

So now what?

bikinimom is the shit.
No one fucks with her, cause of this style.
I love smurf a million times over.
Hell, I'd take a bullet for her.
-Long as it didn't kill me-
j/k

 

[swole]

Heatherrae is here. I can sense her. There is too much drama in this thread. Oh yah, and people should move on...Chris and Smurfy's business is there business and they can choose to do whatever they want with their time and lives. I've learned recently not to judge people because karma bites you in the ass.

I think Rick's post says it best though. Teh internet causes a shitload of problems bewteen couples.

Alc, don't take my quote personally. Your comment sparked a thought...

True, what smurfy and chris do in their private time is their business. However, this isn't, nor has been...their private time. It is on EF, in public view. Their actions are transparent and as with all questionable issues, will spark emotional commentary and debate.

Over the past few years I've learned what matters most in my life are relationships...the ones I have with myself, my family, my girlfriend, my friends, my coworkers, strangers. I've been trying to see the bigger picture of my actions and how it affects people around me. I am always conscious of how other people view me not because I want to please every one, but rather to use the feedback to improve myself as a human being.

Chris, Smurfy - it's great isn't it? Fresh, new, exciting! You found someone who truly understands YOU! Where have they been all your life, who knows. It's obvious you two are infatuated with each other and might actually have a future. There is nothing I love seeing more than two people happily together...because at the end of the day that is ALL you have...each other. The world is a rough place to be alone.

On the other hand, just think about how it affects your loved ones, children, family, friends. How do they view you? Are you being true to them, to yourself? If things don't work out and you are left alone, will people still respect you as an individual based on how you treated past situations? You won't know until it happens. The grass is always greener. Think ahead. Use heart to dream and your head to guide.

Peeps, just be respectful of those around you. Sometimes keeping things quiet is the best thing...don't accuse, defend or hate...just be you and go forward the right way because nothing is guaranteed, especially when you're placing faith in people.

 

[samoth]

Alc, don't take my quote personally. Your comment sparked a thought...

True, what smurfy and chris do in their private time is their business. However, this isn't, nor has been...their private time. It is on EF, in public view. Their actions are transparent and as with all questionable issues, will spark emotional commentary and debate.

Over the past few years I've learned what matters most in my life are relationships...the ones I have with myself, my family, my girlfriend, my friends, my coworkers, strangers. I've been trying to see the bigger picture of my actions and how it affects people around me. I am always conscious of how other people view me not because I want to please every one, but rather to use the feedback to improve myself as a human being.

Chris, Smurfy - it's great isn't it? Fresh, new, exciting! You found someone who truly understands YOU! Where have they been all your life, who knows. It's obvious you two are infatuated with each other and might actually have a future. There is nothing I love seeing more than two people happily together...because at the end of the day that is ALL you have...each other. The world is a rough place to be alone.

On the other hand, just think about how it affects your loved ones, children, family, friends. How do they view you? Are you being true to them, to yourself? If things don't work out and you are left alone, will people still respect you as an individual based on how you treated past situations? You won't know until it happens. The grass is always greener. Think ahead. Use heart to dream and your head to guide.

Peeps, just be respectful of those around you. Sometimes keeping things quiet is the best thing...don't accuse, defend or hate...just be you and go forward the right way because nothing is guaranteed, especially when you're placing faith in people.

Well said. A rational and dispositive assertion.

This is the best post I've read this year.

 

[-Ariel-]

I think they are going to make it.

Reminds me of that Pat Benatar Song... Love is a BattleField.

i've got all my K on this one...

 

[Dial_tone]

How do yo hubby be?

 

[myway]

I think they are going to make it.

Reminds me of that Pat Benatar Song... Love is a BattleField.

i've got all my K on this one...

HAI.
I LOVE that song
So, can I get tha cliffnotes or do I gotta read 10 pages?
btw- I heart smurf.
I go back and 4th about chris.... but mostly bc I don't QUITE understand him ..... yet..and I only want whats best for smurf....and she's a big girl. Able to decide for herself.

 

[myway]

wow. ok. looks like I somehow brought peace and ended this horrible, 7th grade discussion.

 

[myway]

I think they are going to make it.

Reminds me of that Pat Benatar Song... Love is a BattleField.

i've got all my K on this one...

YouTube - Pat Benatar - Love Is A Battlefield (1983 )

 

[nimbus]

wow. ok. looks like I somehow brought peace and ended this horrible, 7th grade discussion.

nice work!!

 

[myway]

nice work!!

Thanx! I try... but I can't honestly take ALL of the credit. Afterall, they prolly just went to sleep.
Damn day walkers.