I am nobody to judge anybody. What two grown adults do in private is their business. How their actions affect their friends and family, is for those close to them to worry about. I think we should all keep from making judgments about others because none of us are perfect.
I also advice for all of you guys who decide to meet and have a relationship with others on the forum, to keep these encounters private and OFF the forums. In all my years as Admin I have seen how many times these romances have spilled over into the site and become a problem that gets tossed on my lap.
Smurf and Chris should have known that being open about their relationship would draw attention from all of the members, and that comments would be made about their respective marital status.
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