The shape of your muscles is mostly genetic so there's no use in doing 5 sets of wide push-ups, then 5 sets of narrow push-ups, then 5 sets of normal push-ups to try to "shape" it. You'd be spinning your wheels and wasting quality time and energy that could have been better spent dipping or pressing.
If your chest is over-powering everything else then reduce the amount of exercises that demand direct work from the chest. Skip the flies and cross-overs and stick to one basic press (flat, or incline, or decline press). Substitute the other chest exercises for things like push presses, dips, or squats.
If your chest is still "too big" (a problem I'd like to have, by the way), then switch from a standard bench press to a close grip. Maybe it'll hand-off some of the workload from the chest to the tricep.