huh? i was refering to social stigma and social anxiety....talking to a person you've never spoken to before and to ask them questions can be very difficult for some people..especially if it's related to business. some may perceive it as "rude" or "disrespectful", just like some guys who never go up to random woman think it may be perceived as the same thing.
alot of people put up these perceived or imaginary boundaries of "Why" they can't do something.
as long as you're holding yourself to a high moral standard, being respectful and being ethical, i think all that other shit is BS and just imaginary boundaries to your goal .