Yep. Honestly curling, and I'm being serious and not trying to be a prick and make you feel bad, but I would assume she's doing it or has done it too - not saying she for sure has a problem with it but I'd start asking yourself if she's more comfortable with it than she should be. Nobody starts hanging around bad news people being a complete goody-goody themselves. Reputation ALWAYS precedes you, even if it's only a minor amount. If this guy was able to hide his coke problem, and I very highly doubt that unless your daughter is either mentally retarded or exceedingly innocent, the fact your daughter is torn here makes no sense to me. This whole story smacks of making no sense. Someone is lying here.