wife trashed all my gear -2nd time

[marvelous54]

maybe you need to sit down and discuss it with her. if you want to be together you need to find a compromise, or throw her stuff away$$$ or best to part ways.

Is it just me or does wizard's post look very similar to someone elses?

maybe you need to sit down and discuss it with her. if you want to be together you need to find a compromise, otherwise you may need to part ways.

Maybe that was his intention but it would have been easier to just come out and tell macro how badly you want to suck him off. I don't think macro is gay but you can probably find some that are if you'll just admit it but do it over on the bts forum.

Wiz's fantasy...


macro - - wiz
macro - - wiz
wiz -


Reality...
macro - wiz -

 

[markmark]

any female input here? any wifes or girlfriend feel this way too?

 

[gettnlarge01]

Educate her or decide which one means most to you.

 

[Sassy69]

any female input here? any wifes or girlfriend feel this way too?

Its a hard one to deal w/ because you are dealing w/ people's belief systems. YOu could try to hide it, but that obviously didn't work for you. So you can either attempt to hide it again, stop or discuss it w/ her.

I can't tell you what would work & what wouldn't because essentially you are trying to convince someone that its "ok" for you to use an illegal chemical that alters your basic hormone balance. Honestly I can't even think of a parallel situation where there's a sort of viable arguement - maybe recreational use of coke for better sex or something? I mean, how do you justify it to someone who only knows that its illegal, can incur jail time, putting some unknown non-doctor-prescribed drug into your system, potential attitude change, mood swings, ball shrinkage, etc etc etc. And all of that is on the assumption that you "know what you are doing".

If you have any chance of argument I'd probably show her the steroid profiles you can find online, discuss the advantages of test, etc. as far as recovery time, health, etc etc. To a degree it is essentially hormone therapy and all that. Have you had your test levels and all that tested yet to know where you stand? One part of the argument is demonstrating responsibility as far as your use, its impact on your body, your current state of health as well -- because she's your wife - she has a vested interest in your health, your relationship w/ her and the quality of your lives together and where she fits in all of it.

But once you've discussed then based on her response, you need to figure out where to go from there - if she's absolutely no fuckin way, then you need to respect that. IF she's open to it, lol, get her involved w/ your glute shots or something.

Anyway - can't give you an answer, however if I were in that situation I'd probably want to be respected enough that you told the truth. Esp since you've been caught twice w/ your pants down.

 

[macrophage69alpha]

women take powerful steroids all the time... its called birth control. and now you can even get higher dosed versions over the counter (morning after pill).

mood swings, personality changes, weight gain, loss of sex drive, "boob shrinkage or growth"... are all also common side effects of "the pill".

JMHO but legal is irrelevant when it comes to drug safety, many legal drugs are often side effect laden and often potentially lethal. Now the fact that it is ILLEGAL does present issues, ones that as a married couple need to be addressed and considered by and taking into account both parties extent of involvement and liability, but they have nothing to do with the drugs themselves.

 

[rykertest]

I'm still amazed at the number of people that hide gear from their wives.

I agree, and this will make me sound like a male pig here, but not only would I not throw anything away that was my wifes, but she would not dare do that to me. it's respecting each other as well as the fact we already have 2 sets of parents, niether of us wants any more.

You had better nip this motherly/bossy thing in the bud NOW or you are going to have a long and painfully nagging marriage.

 

[mr.nitrofish]

forget hideing your gear, you need to have a talk with your girl. im not going to say it will be easy or she will accept your steroid use, but its better off in the long run. you may find you will either need to stop juicing or split up.

my wife knows I use, I tryed being sneaky for a while but she found my stash. she was ok with it, worried about my health, but she was really calm.

 

[odoyal rulez]

Bitch needs a dutch oven, imo...

 

[doublebicep]

If or when you divorce her, make sure and have a clean house, car, office, etc... She will call the police and get she will get you busted.

 

[krishna]

Time for a new wife.