yeah. i'm pretty unapproachable myself. so that's why i'll see a girl/woman and say "hey. come here." and like zombies, they slowly walk toward me and their eyes are wide, so deeply under my spell already.....krishna said:Actually, I've been told that girls do feel threatened by me until they get to know me. Or rather that I seem unapproachable - whatever that means. And I have slept next to girls without doing anything, but it was hard. They usually end up wanting it shortly after that. Go figure, girls like it when you respect them. Who would of known.