Curling, what do you care? Single people hit on married people and vice versa. Kinky people hit on vanilla people. In the theater of eros, there are constant miscues and confusions and nearly everyone acts like an idiot now and then. We don't need to segregate people according to their desire in order to make you more comfortable about your own sexuality, do we?
Fact is nobody minds being leered at by someone they find mutually attractive. Just say "no," Curling. Be one of, um, Nancy's Boys.