I've seen this scene play out before:
1) Someone starts a thread that is a discussion about male/female relationships
2) Many various opinions are expressed (this is a good thing)
3) Some feel strongly about their own opinions (again, good)
4) Jujubes gets into a side argument with a male poster
5) Personal insults are exchanged, hijacking the thread
6) Argument over, thread killed
7) Bigdawg comes in and attempts to e-timidate the male poster
BD it seems to me that JJ is more than capable of speaking for herself. Am I wrong?