suicide

[Buddy_Christ]

Go to a psychiatrist to assess for clinical depression, talk to a cognitive psychologist about your feelings and work with the psychologist to develop a plan of action to change the path that you are on, they address all issues that you are going through better than what a forum like this can offer, they help you come up with solutions to things that are negatively affecting your life. Life's too short to feel the way you do and wallowing it without action wont solve anything. Make a decision to change your life right now and make an action. That means seeking professional help, dont be concerned about the stigma, at worst you'll be talking to someone that has helped people through much more difficult circumstances, its only talking to someone, not like youre getting married to the psychologist. You just have to do something in real life to work out what you are ruminating on.

AND....

Be very careful once you start therapy. People that are clinically depressed are usually on the lethargic side. Once they start to come out of that, if they still feel life is hopeless, they now have the energy to commit suicide.

Go get some help, talk to a professional. There's many forms of therapy out there, it's not all just lying down on a couch and spilling your heart out for hours. Actually, they don't even lay down when they do that.

 

[Sub-Zero]

have you ever wanted to kill yourself? I have thought about it a lot of times because my life sucks. I am 22 years old and i am a virgin. I won´t get any girls because i have bitch-tits and i am very shy. It is very hard to get a job where i live. I don´t know what i am going to work with. I´m not good at anything. I am not going to take suicide, it would be very selfish.

hang in there, being able to even think, and function in itself is a gift. if you take that ability from yourself you wont have anything. nothing will be fixed or made better

i was taking a long bath and meditating/zoning out and thinking, and all of a sudden felt like i had no reason to live..it wasnt even sad thoughts or nervous thoughts(which i have had when i was depressed),but i was seriously thinking why shouldn't i kill myself...

then i starting thinking about all the things i DO have...sure im a virgin too, have very little friends, hardly ever have "fun" and feel my life sucks, dont feel like anybody in my life outside of my immediate family truly wants to know what im thinking, how im feeling, to do stuff with me, hang out with me...
but i lift, and i love it. i have goals to reach, and that alone is enough to keep someone going. then i thought about my mom- she loves me and i love her, and i couldnt do that to her. and love i share with my dad and my brother too. the good times and even the not so good with your family or even a pet .EF, brothabills spirit board, my computer, music, running and just moving in itself even feels good. even being able to sleep and wake up, to eat and taste things, to watch movies, to laugh at tv shows.

just look in your life at the good things and focus hard on them, and enjoy them all the more. suicide is never an answer...its just an end for people who are too weak to find their answer

 

[Sub-Zero]

I know that if I was a 22 year old virgin and somewhat depressed (to the point of contemplating suicide), I'd probably just say fuck it, dial up a couple of hot escorts and fuck em both silly. This in turn would not only give you a much needed boost, but also having experienced the bliss of what a wet pussy can do for you, I guarantee you will no longer be thinking about death. After doing this then follow what everyone has said

use condoms and DO NOT lick it

 

[dahamn]

Listen u wnt believe it but i use to be like u. I had the biggest tits ever i mean literally i could compete with some 2DD. It was hard getting work and ppl were making fun of me all the time. Imagine at 17 u go to swim and everyone starts cracking at u. I thought abt it every bloody day. Then I decide to change myself and start working out at the gym and moved address
I am now 23. People do not believe the way i luk now, they just dnt recognise and compliment me.

I went throught this as well but the only way u can change is to change urself. start going to gym, loose the fat and believe me u wuill get so many girls and confidence.

Suicide is a permanant solution to a temporary problem......everybody hurts man, move, start going to the gym, eat right.....stay away from alcohol. You may think you are the only one going thru this but it's actually pretty common and it will pass.....before you do anything, PM and I will be glad to talk.


Dave

 

[outset2]

I have had simular thoughts about suicide; I’m not all the way out of the woods myself. I can give you some advice that might make life easier for you. First as for the virgin thing at 22, don’t worry about it. Sex for the most part is overrated (If you’re not with someone you are in love with) and combined with the worry about accidental pregnancy or STD’s, being sexually active in you’re present frame of mind might not be helpful at all. You will find that there are many women you’re age who are shy and inexperienced and you will enjoy learning about these things with someone you care for, don’t just look for some slut to give it up to you. Second as for being shy, a lot of people are shy, me included and that doesn’t have to limit you’re potential for getting a good job, it only means that you will have to push you’re self harder than some. Everyone has special talents, you just need to find you’re talent. I did terrible at school and after a few tries I found my talent as an auto mechanic. Try not to worry as much about what other’s think about you’re appearance (I know it’s hard to do) but the only way to overcome the self esteem problem is from the inside, not by changing the way you look on the outside. I know a guy from high school who must weigh like 300+lbs at about 5’9” (not muscle), this guy has always been over weight, and I’ve actually known him since kindergarten. He is the most charismatic person I know and walks into a room with more confidence than a pro bodybuilder on stage. Guess what, the guy is happy, successful and has a beautiful and intelligent girlfriend. So the moral of the story is to change the way you think about you’re self, then change the way you look, only if you want to. If you start bodybuilding do it because you enjoy it and want to, not because you feel like you should, just to fit into the “normal” look. I haven’t mastered this all myself but am working hard; I think it is a good game plan. If you want to talk PM me.

 

[Growth&Courage]

If gyno is a significant factor limiting you from getting sex and responsible much for your low-self esteem and insecurity in self-identity then you should address that first.
Gyno can be eliminated via surgical operations and increasingly there are many alternatives to go about it. (Do a search on gyno or bitch tits you’ll find a great deal of results)

 

[DIVISION]

have you ever wanted to kill yourself? I have thought about it a lot of times because my life sucks. I am 22 years old and i am a virgin. I won´t get any girls because i have bitch-tits and i am very shy. It is very hard to get a job where i live. I don´t know what i am going to work with. I´m not good at anything. I am not going to take suicide, it would be very selfish.

Move to another city where there is more industry and get a short term job that you can tolerate just until you have enough money to support yourself.

Regarding the gynomastia, because you can't afford surgery at this point, I would try Nolvadex @ 50MG ed for a few weeks just to see if there is any effect. At that dose you should see some improvement unless it is glandular gyno which would most likely need to be excised via surgery. If it's just excess subcutaneous fat around the nipple, there are ways to work that off.

You are not serious about committing suicide. Both you and I know that you aren't going to do it. You are just having a hard time with life right now and you need some guidance. I understand well and there are many bros on here who will offer you the help you are asking for. Keep in mind that in life there are low points as well as high points and how you respond during those times will define you as a person. Get through this and make changes in your life that reflect where you want to be, rather than where you are right now.

I'm here to help if you would like. Take care, man.





DIV

 

[Fast Twitch Fiber]

I know that if I was a 22 year old virgin and somewhat depressed (to the point of contemplating suicide), I'd probably just say fuck it, dial up a couple of hot escorts and fuck em both silly. This in turn would not only give you a much needed boost, but also having experienced the bliss of what a wet pussy can do for you, I guarantee you will no longer be thinking about death. After doing this then follow what everyone has said

LOL! This is exactly what happened to me. I was a technical cherry at 25(I had experienced 2 blow jobs before but no pussy) . I visited a hot escort and nailed her for an hour straight. It was the best $500 I ever spent. After I got over the whole stigma of being a virgin, I started having an easier time getting laid.

 

[Fast Twitch Fiber]

Is your gynecomastia caused because you are overweight or is it true gyno with breast tissue? Some people just have pseudo-gynecomastia which is just fat, others have true gyno which is actual breast tissue. If it's just fat, then losing weight will make it go away. If it's actual breast tissue, go see a cosmetic surgeon. They can remove it. I had gyno removal several years ago. It was a relatively minor surgery. I was back lifting after 3 weeks. It cost me $3500 which I took out a loan and paid back $100 a month.

 

[Mr. Black]

LOL! This is exactly what happened to me. I visited a hot escort and nailed her for an hour straight.

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