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Self control when dude is IN YOUR FACE

kx250rider

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I have a generally calm and gentleman-type personality... Avoid trouble and don't pick fights. But I have a problem going on with one of my wife's friends and her so-called husband. We let my wife's friend rent a little guest house for nearly nothing, on the condition that she doesn't get the garage, and she doesn't cause any trouble for the people renting (and paying the going rate) in the main house. This all started about 6 months ago.

She started up asking if she could "stick a couple things" in the garage from her storage unit, to sort them. My wife said OK, but I wasn't happy about it because I have some stuff in there that I don't want messed with. So this went on for more than "a few days", and now she has it packratted like those houses they show on TV :confused: . I was already irritated about that, since I can't say anything much because she's my wife's friend, and she's basically a decent person. But now it's gone beyond tolerance... Her ex shows up with 2 trucks, and parks one in the yard (illegally) blocking MY place when I go there, and he's brought all kinds of HIS crap there and is building cabinets with MY electricity and in MY driveway, and never asked. On top of THAT, he's a prick. He pretends to be cool, and starts up a conversation, and then WHAM-O; the criticisms start up. Just last night, when I tried to go over there to put a charger on one of my cars in the garage, I had to listen to all the things that are wrong with how I run my life, and this bro hasn't known me for more than 180 seconds. He says the house is built wrong, and that I should do this and do that with my old car collection, and I need to build more shelves in MY garage, and I should have put electrical outlets outside the house, and then he saw me lifting an old Zenith TV set into my garage, and he started telling me why I shouldn't bother with that old TV, and how it's not worth anything. I politely told him I was a factory-authorized Zenith TV technician from 1988-2001, and that I would decide whether or not it's worth fixing. The he moved into how it's my fault that the County of Ventura won't give me a building permit to do some things at our place in Moorpark, and that I just didn't know how to talk to the County. I was too exhausted to hit him.

This is going to stop, and it's going to stop TODAY.

Thanks for reading, and letting me vent!

Charles
 
I agree ,its gone too far already ,i would give them a time limit to move out,you were way to generous & so was your wife.If the time expires go to the courthouse and get eviction papers drawn up,if they drag ,Run that WW 2 Siren every night that will definetely do it.
 
I would have kicked his ass by now, for sure, but I really can't stand that personality type.
 
Should have told him to mind his own fugging business when he was telling you how to run your life. Now your going to be the bad guy nomatter what you do. Do it ASAP brah!!! Or your gonna have a mess on your hands....
 
You need to first man up and have it out with your wife without causing too big of a fight. Tell her this shit is over and done with and that SHE has to help correct this problem before you start wildin' out.
The friend needs to sign an agreement of some sort of about what is and isn't allowed to happen there. A structured set of rules that must be used for not just this tenant, but tell her of any tenant that lives in this particular guest house. Tell her you are sorry if in any way it was not clear what is and is not acceptable at the house or the garage. You need to set up some good rules for the garage, whether it is no priveleges at all or just a small dedicated spot. The BF is not allowed there for any reason to do work or anything like that because it is not allowed and also you will be using this site for your work on certain days and it is impotant you have the space clear when you need that area. etc...
 
Fist fuck the cock suxers eye socket, do it NOW
 
Handle this. If your wife doesn't like it, tough fucking shit. It's her fault this crap is going on in the first place since its her friend that moved in.
 
Easy to say that, and it may be the right answer. It is not always that simple though.

Your right Latinos, I can imagine how difficult it may be because of the family issue. NOTE FOR FUTURE REFERENCE:
1. Dont loan money to your relatives you are not prepared to LOOSE
2. Dont ever let them move in with you, because there like HERPES, you never get rid of them.:artist:
 
The update is that my wife's friend flaked out... She was supposed to come out alone to our place to talk about it, and let us hear her plan to fix the problem. The husband is not there today, so I'm going over there in about 45 minutes, and will remove all objects outside the guest house. Fortunately, the stuff lying around outside is on common areas, and is not legally covered by laws which prohibit a landlord from moving/disturbing tenants' possessions. The husband is not coming back... I'll stop him. And I have many eyes watching, so he can't sneak ;)

Charles
 
just look at him blankly and halfway through one of his rants say "shut the fuck up". then when hes like 'excuse me" say "youre full of shit"

and move from there
 
The rules are laid out, deadlines agreed on, hands were shaken, and it and WILL be followed. So far no trouble... I'm going to be all over that house like fungus for the next couple days, to be sure things are going as committed. The ex is forbidden to come onto the property without our permission and a GOOD reason (like to put out a fire), and if he does, we'll have to evict based on breach of lease. And as for the junk that has been brought in, I said I'd begin to remove it on Friday. Period. So anything she thinks she needs to keep, will have to be gone by then to some other location.

Charles
 
Time will tell now if you have to take this further. Hopefully you showed them that you are dead serious and that if they walk all over you again that there will be repercussions.
 
He really wants to get hit. He's basically cooperating so far, but he couldn't resist asking me if I took his measuring tape when I was there yesterday making sure branding irons are hot under their asses...

Charles
 
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