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My Mother Fuckin Dad Just Called My Sister And...
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THeMaCHinE
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BBB -- give it some time, things WILL work out -- your mom has gotten you this far right? May not be perfect (nothing is) but things will keep getting better.
A lot of people have problems with their divorced parents getting married again -- it's completely natural. It also closes off that little hope that dad will do the right thing and make ammends with your mom. You'll get past it, as will the rest of your family.
If it's a small consolation, 4 months of courting and going into a 2nd marriage, the numbers are very much against long-term longevity of his marriage.
Hang in there. You're strong, your mom is perhaps strongest of all; be there for each other and encourage open conversation. You'll find that when the worst of your fears are stated out loud, they lose their power. Try it.
A lot of people have problems with their divorced parents getting married again -- it's completely natural. It also closes off that little hope that dad will do the right thing and make ammends with your mom. You'll get past it, as will the rest of your family.
If it's a small consolation, 4 months of courting and going into a 2nd marriage, the numbers are very much against long-term longevity of his marriage.
Hang in there. You're strong, your mom is perhaps strongest of all; be there for each other and encourage open conversation. You'll find that when the worst of your fears are stated out loud, they lose their power. Try it.
Stangfriik
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when my mom divorced my dad, he burnt our house down.
big_bad_buff
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He left her with all the bills, mortgage, car payment, feeding the kids, working fulltime etc. anyways, I'm not hurt at all, wasn't hurt over the divorce either, I could care, he wasn't really a good dad anyways....just feel for my mom that's still getting over everything, and he's already getting married. I dont think I would ever want to hurt my dad, but I'm glad he didn't tell me in person last night, I probably would have popped in the head. anyways, thanks for the replies
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VicTusDeuS
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80k a year isnt rich . She's lucky he didnt take the house and throw her on the street. Do you think he shoulve kept the mortgage payment but let her live there..That's not fair either.
Did your mom want to have custody of the kids. If hat what she wanted thats why she got you guys.
He's a free man now, he should be able to get married to who ever he wants.
Did your mom want to have custody of the kids. If hat what she wanted thats why she got you guys.
He's a free man now, he should be able to get married to who ever he wants.
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Isn't saying "dad" and "mother fucking" redundant?
Sorry bro, just bringing some humor to the table. That really does suck.
Sorry bro, just bringing some humor to the table. That really does suck.
big_bad_buff
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did i say it was right or wrong dick nose? that's like me saying my mom got hit by a car crossing the street, and you saying: well she shoulda been more careful. 80k is a lot when he lives in a small town in missouri were the average pay there is like 35k and everything is cheap. not like he lives in down town st louis in a high rise. he's lucky he didnt take the house and throw her on he streets? who the hell are you to say that!! neither of them wanted the house, so they were trying to sell it, so he split and stopped making his "half payments" and she was stuck making it all. is that right in your eyes?
yes he's a free man and can marry or do what ever he wants, that's besides the point, but is this not suposed to hurt my mother even more? obviously you must be young and not too experianced with life and feelings
yes he's a free man and can marry or do what ever he wants, that's besides the point, but is this not suposed to hurt my mother even more? obviously you must be young and not too experianced with life and feelings
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