Men. any idea?

[javaguru]

Yes, exactly. Although, at work he's a loner. He deals with the job but nothing else. I don't really blame him considering the jerks he works with.... but he doesn't chit-chat/socialize at all while he's working.
If he gets pissed off about something at work, he can talk to me about that stuff(but not as much as he did before we got married). He won't confront the problems at work. He won't deal with problems with me. But he will vent about work to me. He's very passive.

So what you're saying is that he is a man when it comes to dealing with issues.... He has to deal with work issues differently than a woman. Remember, you see the world differently from him and a little empathy goes a long way.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

No family has stayed over and they are not my size or brand. Red,lacy g-string. A size bigger than mine but deff. sluty undies.... but not my size or brand. When I buy undies, I buy small. These are LARGE. No way they are mine. No family members or anyone else has stayed here or done laundry here.

They are def. slutwear. If some chic wore that ghetto trash combination around me I'd probably burn them.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

And why do chicks always leave panties behind?

Why do dogs piss on fire hydrants?

 

[velvett]

So what you're saying is that he is a man when it comes to dealing with issues.... He has to deal with work issues differently than a woman. Remember, you see the world differently from him and a little empathy goes a long way.

I don't think being a man and being unable to deal with or cope with your problems to be mutally exclusive.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I only read bits and pieces of the thread but it seems the issue is still unresolved.

From a guy's perspective, Myway, I've read enough here to conclude that he's lying, no question. Many guys will deny something even in the face of cold hard truth because that's just how they were brought up. What kind of person is he? How much do you really know about him? Questions to ask yourself. It already sounds like he got caught up in a lie with the lost ex's panties/flooring incident, and yet he still denies it.

Weigh your options. Once you know he betrayed your trust, you have to decide whether you're better off with him or without him.

It might be a little different if he at least manned up and admitted the truth.

 

[digimon7068]

I only read bits and pieces of the thread but it seems the issue is still unresolved.

From a guy's perspective, Myway, I've read enough here to conclude that he's lying, no question. Many guys will deny something even in the face of cold hard truth because that's just how they were brought up. What kind of person is he? How much do you really know about him? Questions to ask yourself. It already sounds like he got caught up in a lie with the lost ex's panties/flooring incident, and yet he still denies it.

Weigh your options. Once you know he betrayed your trust, you have to decide whether you're better off with him or without him.

It might be a little different if he at least manned up and admitted the truth.

yeah but she's tiny and the undies are size large. . .you're accusing her man (who's also a board member btw) of being a closet-chubby-chaser. . .that's bad-bro material right there. . .

 

[seaking420]

yeah but she's tiny and the undies are size large. . .you're accusing her man (who's also a board member btw) of being a closet-chubby-chaser. . .that's bad-bro material right there. . .

lol......true but maybe he likes some junk in the trunk and myway is a little to firm..........hey myway we need pics of your ass to give you an answer......
dont mean to make this into a joke myway

 

[Burning_Inside]

so theres only 4 reasons for the panties.

1: They are the other girls. Why she would lie about who knows
2: They are his and he is embarassed to fill you in on his fetish
3: You're making this story up for attention.
4: GOD put them there intentionally to cause a rift in yoru marriage to test your faith in it

 

[all the whey]

so theres only 4 reasons for the panties.

1: They are the other girls. Why she would lie about who knows
2: They are his and he is embarassed to fill you in on his fetish
3: You're making this story up for attention.
4: GOD put them there intentionally to cause a rift in yoru marriage to test your faith in it

Ah..That Burning_Inside..So witty and smart..

 

[velvett]

4: GOD put them there intentionally to cause a rift in yoru marriage to test your faith in it

DO religious people really believe that sort of thing?