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myway said:
Ok. When doing my husbands laundry, I found undies(not mine) mixed with his clothes. He said he didn't know where they came from. The only other person that EVER does laundry at my house is my good friend,melissa. She says they aren't hers. I am under the impression that the CORRECT action would be to trust my husband. I keep trying to wrap my mind around it....it's not working. He can't give me any logical explaination about these unknown undies ending up in our house/laundry.
I haven't reacted in any crazy way...yet :rolleyes: .......but I am not satisfied with the responses from him. Hmmmm.
Wonder what I should do with this sittuation.....any ideas?
BTW- I'm not wanting to fight. I just want a reason from him that could make this make sense.
So far, he said he loves me, would never cheat or lie and he wants me to trust him. That would all work out fine if I wasn't hold in my hand slut undies that DO NOT belong to me. I'm trying to br reasonable. Where do I go from now?
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he's fucking somebody no doubt about it. i could basically ask you some questions and then tell you definitely and why but i'll save it.

back off of it and let it drop, but then install a keylogger on your computer to track his every move on it and get his secrete emails and passwords.
 
is the washer and dryer used? is it possible that the panties belong to the previous owner and they were trapped in the top part of the washer for years and finally fell back down into the machine during spin cycle, its definitely plausible.
 
Myway, no matter what the truth is, the best move would be to get some therapy.
Living with doubt will erode you from the inside out.
 
Longhorn85 said:
At first everyone wants to convict the guy, but after thinking about it realize you can't, really.
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I don't necessarily ageree with that, I think it's easy to convict him (especially if you base it on past actions) but it's just as easy to be rational with your reaction to it and to him.
 
velvett said:
I don't necessarily ageree with that, I think it's easy to convict him (especially if you base it on past actions) but it's just as easy to be rational with your reaction to it and to him.
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i saw u at that other place
 
spongebob said:
he's fucking somebody no doubt about it. i could basically ask you some questions and then tell you definitely and why but i'll save it.

back off of it and let it drop, but then install a keylogger on your computer to track his every move on it and get his secrete emails and passwords.
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I think she's done that already
 
Technoviking said:
why are u asking advice from a bunch of buffoons on a fucking fitness forum.....do you trust him? if so believe him...if not confront him.
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exactly
 
velvett said:
Oh wow, he is good.

In one breath he tells you he hopes you won't leave and in another he's telling you it will be your fault if you leave and break up the family.

Take your father up on the offer and go to therapy as a couple and also go alone.

Sometime we pick people to have in our lives because there's something about ourselves we need to face and improve upon and sometimes it's just to punish ourselves for our own weakness.

You guys need to figure out or remember why you came together in the first place and what now perpetuates the negative and destructive behavior between you both.

:rose:
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TITCR!!
 
Technoviking said:
why are u asking advice from a bunch of buffoons on a fucking fitness forum.....do you trust him? if so believe him...if not confront him.
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There are many wise and intelligent folks on this site (as there are on other msg boards) that offer some good insight into others personal pains.
Maybe they're the same "buffoons" that help you through your pain of divorce.
 
blueta2 said:
There are many wise and intelligent folks on this site (as there are on other msg boards) that offer some good insight into others personal pains.
Maybe they're the same "buffoons" that help you through your pain of divorce.
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Aside from that - she also mentioned that she did confront him about it (and she mentioned his response).

:)
 
Longhorn85 said:
When you say you would never forgive at all, I guess I am reminded of the phrase, "never say never". As wonderful as you are, I doubt that you or Mr. VB are perfect, and you yourself might be in need of forgiveness someday for somehow hurting your hubby. Maybe you'll go through some type of phase, who knows?

When you see a couple that has been married for 40, 50, 60 years with adult children, grandchildren, shared memories, estate, assets, sitting as a glorious and uber-respected family patriach at a family reunion, you can rest assured that at some time during their relationship one or the other was hurt and maybe ready to leave, but decided to forgive and yes, salvage the marriage, and were able to grow and be even happier than before.
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There is HUGE difference between hurting someone and cheating on them. Christ, I always thought I had a really high pain tolerance, I guess not.

I never said I had the perfect marriage. You think that I'm easy to live with? Ha! I'm the most difficult person alive to live with.

My idea of "hurting" him is when I very nicely reminded him that he was getting too chubby. I placed the empty Little Debbie wrapers I found in his truck on a pair of pants he could NO longer fit into. He bitched that those pants had to skrink in the damn washer. WTF? He got my point, it hurt, but he started training again. Yeah, it hurt him that I rubbed his nose in ti, but, HE also understood that I loved him enough to say HOW I felt about his Little Debbie snack attacks.

Sorry, cheating on EACH other would not "hurt" us, it would kill us! HUGE difference IMO.
 
ceo said:
Little Debbie? Now I'm hungry.
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lol. Not the two legged kind of snacks, CEO.


He was acting all "strange" when I asked to drive his truck to get some pansies(flowers) to plant. I did not want to dirty up the trunk of my car..Yadda Yadda, I know..Anyways... IT was SOOO obvious he had something to hide in his truck the way he was acting. Silly man, he thinks I can't read him like a book. lol

I found his stash of Little Debbie's and empty McDonald's trash bags in the cab of his truck. Yep, he sure was hiding something alright- HIS pant shrinkers! lol
 
blueta2 said:
There are many wise and intelligent folks on this site (as there are on other msg boards) that offer some good insight into others personal pains.
Maybe they're the same "buffoons" that help you through your pain of divorce.
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Look a my name darling...do you think im serious?
 
I don't buy the "he's calm and not saying much, so he's probably innocent" approach. He's a cop. He watches people incriminate themselves by talking too much everyday. He won't make that mistake.
 
Longhorn85 said:
At first everyone wants to convict the guy, but after thinking about it realize you can't, really.
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well my second post was a complete joke, i have no doubt he's banging someone.
 
crew9 said:
I don't buy the "he's calm and not saying much, so he's probably innocent" approach. He's a cop. He watches people incriminate themselves by talking too much everyday. He won't make that mistake.
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Excellent point. I mean it's not quite fair to automatically assume he's lying. But this is still a point to keep in consideration.
 
Arabian said:
Has anyone heard from her? whats going on>?
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Actually, I'm kinda just chillin'.
I feel more calm than I would have guessed.
At first, he was just saying he didn't know where the stray panties came from. Now, he's making more guesses about how they could have ended up in our house/laundry. Meanwhile, I'm calling bullshit.
He said maybe they have just been stuck behind the dryer from when his ex lived here before we were married. Nope. We have a new dryer.
Next, he said that maybe the unknown undies were just under a piece of furniture from when his' ex lived here(4 years ago). Nope. We had every inch of our flooring replaced about a year ago. Plus, our furniture is all new from about 2 years ago. If I allow myself to get too pissed off, I won't think straight enough to make good decisions. It's getting hard because these lame excuses are insulting, plus, they make him seem MORE guilty. For the sake of my family, I am willing to give the therapy a try. I did explain to him that therapy won't really work if he can't be honest while we are with the therapist.
 
myway said:
Actually, I'm kinda just chillin'.
I feel more calm than I would have guessed.
At first, he was just saying he didn't know where the stray panties came from. Now, he's making more guesses about how they could have ended up in our house/laundry. Meanwhile, I'm calling bullshit.
He said maybe they have just been stuck behind the dryer from when his ex lived here before we were married. Nope. We have a new dryer.
Next, he said that maybe the unknown undies were just under a piece of furniture from when his' ex lived here(4 years ago). Nope. We had every inch of our flooring replaced about a year ago. Plus, our furniture is all new from about 2 years ago. If I allow myself to get too pissed off, I won't think straight enough to make good decisions. It's getting hard because these lame excuses are insulting, plus, they make him seem MORE guilty. For the sake of my family, I am willing to give the therapy a try. I did explain to him that therapy won't really work if he can't be honest while we are with the therapist.
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what was the reason he and the ex wife got divorced?
 
myway said:
Actually, I'm kinda just chillin'.
I feel more calm than I would have guessed.
At first, he was just saying he didn't know where the stray panties came from. Now, he's making more guesses about how they could have ended up in our house/laundry. Meanwhile, I'm calling bullshit.
He said maybe they have just been stuck behind the dryer from when his ex lived here before we were married. Nope. We have a new dryer.
Next, he said that maybe the unknown undies were just under a piece of furniture from when his' ex lived here(4 years ago). Nope. We had every inch of our flooring replaced about a year ago. Plus, our furniture is all new from about 2 years ago. If I allow myself to get too pissed off, I won't think straight enough to make good decisions. It's getting hard because these lame excuses are insulting, plus, they make him seem MORE guilty. For the sake of my family, I am willing to give the therapy a try. I did explain to him that therapy won't really work if he can't be honest while we are with the therapist.
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You're a better woman than I, Myway! :heart:

Good luck.
 
myway said:
I am willing to give the therapy a try. I did explain to him that therapy won't really work if he can't be honest while we are with the therapist.
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Yes it will work, as long as your honest. Make therapy about you and not him.
If he wants to lie, then he loses. If you are honest, you will get the benefit of therapy and the strength to move on in peace.

Myway, thereapy saved my sanity from a cheating ex.
 
blueta2 said:
Yes it will work, as long as your honest. Make therapy about you and not him.
If he wants to lie, then he loses. If you are honest, you will get the benefit of therapy and the strength to move on in peace.

Myway, thereapy saved my sanity from a cheating ex.
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You're deep
 
myway said:
For the sake of my family, I am willing to give the therapy a try. .
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That's admirable, and a level-headed approach to the situation.

Are you worried about long-term effects of this, though? Even if this "therapy" (sorry, I don't believe in "therapy", just my personal view) works in the short term, I'd imagine there would be many lingering ill feelings inside you that may not even show themselves for years to come. Are you the type of person who will truly be able to give 100% trust to him for the rest of your life, given this situation? Or will you be creating your own personal prison?

Either way, best of luck to ya.
 
I just read through most of this thread.........honestly it dosent sound good myway.....and it also sounds like he's been untrustworthy in the past and present...imo

what happened in his first marriage that he got divorced.....can this be a pattern? Im just sayin.....I do think if someone cheated in the past they may not in the future....depending on the person
 
Smurfy said:
what was the reason he and the ex wife got divorced?
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It was an ex girlfriend, not wife. This is his first marriage. They broke up because she wanted to get married and he didn't.
 
myway said:
It was an ex girlfriend, not wife. This is his first marriage. They broke up because she wanted to get married and he didn't.
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are they hers
 
The Race said:
That's admirable, and a level-headed approach to the situation.

Are you worried about long-term effects of this, though? Even if this "therapy" (sorry, I don't believe in "therapy", just my personal view) works in the short term, I'd imagine there would be many lingering ill feelings inside you that may not even show themselves for years to come. Are you the type of person who will truly be able to give 100% trust to him for the rest of your life, given this situation? Or will you be creating your own personal prison?

Either way, best of luck to ya.
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Therapy can be whatever you make it. It doesn't have to be with a licenced therapist but maybe a "leader" or a "guide" in some sense.
We all lose our way and sometimes need an outside force to see the bigger picture and to adjust thinking
 
blueta2 said:
Therapy can be whatever you make it. It doesn't have to be with a licenced therapist but maybe a "leader" or a "guide" in some sense.
We all lose our way and sometimes need an outside force to see the bigger picture and to adjust thinking
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I agree. I think we mostly need one to translate. Right now, we are not speaking the same language.
 
She answered that here:

jdynasty said:
are they hers
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myway said:
Actually, I'm kinda just chillin'.
I feel more calm than I would have guessed.
At first, he was just saying he didn't know where the stray panties came from. Now, he's making more guesses about how they could have ended up in our house/laundry. Meanwhile, I'm calling bullshit.
He said maybe they have just been stuck behind the dryer from when his ex lived here before we were married. Nope. We have a new dryer.
Next, he said that maybe the unknown undies were just under a piece of furniture from when his' ex lived here(4 years ago). Nope. We had every inch of our flooring replaced about a year ago. Plus, our furniture is all new from about 2 years ago. If I allow myself to get too pissed off, I won't think straight enough to make good decisions. It's getting hard because these lame excuses are insulting, plus, they make him seem MORE guilty. For the sake of my family, I am willing to give the therapy a try. I did explain to him that therapy won't really work if he can't be honest while we are with the therapist.
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blueta2 said:
Therapy can be whatever you make it. It doesn't have to be with a licenced therapist but maybe a "leader" or a "guide" in some sense.
We all lose our way and sometimes need an outside force to see the bigger picture and to adjust thinking
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Agree and disagree. Of course, anything is what you make it. I don't agree on the "outside force" thought though. How many couples do you know that have gone through therapy and managed to sustain the positive results forever (marriage is forever, correct?)? Not many, no doubt. I tend to lean towards the good ol "look inside" approach.

The main issue I have wiht therapy is that it becomes a quick fix band-aid in many cases. Once again, you're correct, it is what you make it. But in reality, it tends to help initially then the feelings creep back up over time.
 
The Race said:
Agree and disagree. Of course, anything is what you make it. I don't agree on the "outside force" thought though. How many couples do you know that have gone through therapy and managed to sustain the positive results forever (marriage is forever, correct?)? Not many, no doubt. I tend to lean towards the good ol "look inside" approach.

The main issue I have wiht therapy is that it becomes a quick fix band-aid in many cases. Once again, you're correct, it is what you make it. But in reality, it tends to help initially then the feelings creep back up over time.
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I don't plan on going to "fix" anything. I'm not even sure about what can or should be "fixed". My main goal will be communication.
Married or divorced, we will STILL need to listen to/respect one another for our son's benefit. I'm trying to keep an open mind. This man was one of my best friends for YEARS before we were married. Things seem to have been derailed, somehow. He knows what I expect from a relationship. I know what he expects. If one of us is no longer able to live up to what's expected, hopefully we are able to get on the same page about the reality of the sittuation.
 
myway said:
I don't plan on going to "fix" anything. I'm not even sure about what can or should be "fixed". My main goal will be communication.
Married or divorced, we will STILL need to listen to/respect one another for our son's benefit. I'm trying to keep an open mind. This man was one of my best friends for YEARS before we were married. Things seem to have been derailed, somehow. He knows what I expect from a relationship. I know what he expects. If one of us is no longer able to live up to what's expected, hopefully we are able to get on the same page about the reality of the sittuation.
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Good woman. Mad respect to you.
 
myway said:
I don't plan on going to "fix" anything. I'm not even sure about what can or should be "fixed". My main goal will be communication.
Married or divorced, we will STILL need to listen to/respect one another for our son's benefit. I'm trying to keep an open mind. This man was one of my best friends for YEARS before we were married. Things seem to have been derailed, somehow. He knows what I expect from a relationship. I know what he expects. If one of us is no longer able to live up to what's expected, hopefully we are able to get on the same page about the reality of the sittuation.
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You know... Based on the whole computer trashing incident I questioned your judgment. But based on this post (and the whole thread really) I have to say that I am forced to rethink my original assessment.

You actually seem level-headed and quite rational.

I hope for your son's benefit that ya'll can find some sort of middle ground. I can't think of many more things that can damage a child the way an ugly divorce/custody battle can.

I sincerely wish the best for you all.
 
myway said:
I don't plan on going to "fix" anything. I'm not even sure about what can or should be "fixed". My main goal will be communication.
Married or divorced, we will STILL need to listen to/respect one another for our son's benefit. I'm trying to keep an open mind. This man was one of my best friends for YEARS before we were married. Things seem to have been derailed, somehow. He knows what I expect from a relationship. I know what he expects. If one of us is no longer able to live up to what's expected, hopefully we are able to get on the same page about the reality of the sittuation.
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good attitude, this is a workable plan....
 
I haven't been able to read every single page of this thread, but has someone suggested a lie detector test yet? He is a cop right? Take him to a neighboring dept? Or better take him to someone who specializes in lie detector tests in these situations. If I was in this situation, and "innocent"...........I would have strapped myself up to a detector that very fucking day that my wife comes to me with foreign panties. I"d even volunteer for sodium pentathol
 
The Race said:
Agree and disagree. Of course, anything is what you make it. I don't agree on the "outside force" thought though. How many couples do you know that have gone through therapy and managed to sustain the positive results forever (marriage is forever, correct?)? Not many, no doubt. I tend to lean towards the good ol "look inside" approach.
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yes, my parents. Married 50 yrs last Oct and went to couples therapy twice

I'm sure had I gone to couples therapy with my last boyfriends, I am sure they would have turned out MUCH differently
 
BIKINIMOM said:
You know... Based on the whole computer trashing incident I questioned your judgment. But based on this post (and the whole thread really) I have to say that I am forced to rethink my original assessment.

You actually seem level-headed and quite rational.

I hope for your son's benefit that ya'll can find some sort of middle ground. I can't think of many more things that can damage a child the way an ugly divorce/custody battle can.

I sincerely wish the best for you all.
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The computer trashing incident was a little over-the-top. I tend to have a quick temper when I feel like someone is trying to get something over on me. I'm working on that about myself...and a few other things.
When it comes to major stress(the BIG stuff) I have always had a knack for being calm and level headed. It is one of my strong points. I am a great friend and paramedic because of this quality.
I have my share of flaws( i can be a REAL pain in the ass) but I'm working on them.
BTW- I appreciate ur comments. I have always admired ur views on these types of issues.
 
myway said:
The computer trashing incident was a little over-the-top. I tend to have a quick temper when I feel like someone is trying to get something over on me. I'm working on that about myself...and a few other things.
When it comes to major stress(the BIG stuff) I have always had a knack for being calm and level headed. It is one of my strong points. I am a great friend and paramedic because of this quality.
I have my share of flaws( i can be a REAL pain in the ass) but I'm working on them.
BTW- I appreciate ur comments. I have always admired ur views on these types of issues.
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You do seem much calmer. Let me ask you, does your hubby ever work on his issues or is it just you that makes all the changes that are neccessary?
 
blueta2 said:
yes, my parents. Married 50 yrs last Oct and went to couples therapy twice

I'm sure had I gone to couples therapy with my last boyfriends, I am sure they would have turned out MUCH differently
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My parents have been married 30something years. They have spent about 15 years in therapy. They do it all wrong. I think my mother uses it as some form of punishment. It seems like my dad gave up a long time ago. He stays out of town as much as possible or just keeps his' mouth shut. He knows that speaking his mind will just land him in therapy twice a week for the next 6 months. It's sad. I won't live like that.
 
myway said:
My parents have been married 30something years. They have spent about 15 years in therapy. They do it all wrong. I think my mother uses it as some form of punishment. It seems like my dad gave up a long time ago. He stays out of town as much as possible or just keeps his' mouth shut. He knows that speaking his mind will just land him in therapy twice a week for the next 6 months. It's sad. I won't live like that.
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ugh God no...No need to live like that. If after a few months with some guidance and change follwing, if norhing workds, then you need to walk away..........knowing you tried.
 
blueta2 said:
You do seem much calmer. Let me ask you, does your hubby ever work on his issues or is it just you that makes all the changes that are neccessary?
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Nate has always said that he has a hard time dealing with things. He tends to just ignore problems. I am the opposite. I like to confront problems head on. I would rather deal with something before it gets out of control. He has gotten better..... but still has a problem with running from things.
Years ago, when we were just friends, he always said he wanted to learn how to deal with problems as well as I usually handle them. When it's go-time, he tucks his tail and runs. He has improved but only a little.
 
myway said:
Nate has always said that he has a hard time dealing with things. He tends to just ignore problems. I am the opposite. I like to confront problems head on. I would rather deal with something before it gets out of control. He has gotten better..... but still has a problem with running from things.
Years ago, when we were just friends, he always said he wanted to learn how to deal with problems as well as I usually handle them. When it's go-time, he tucks his tail and runs. He has improved but only a little.
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I'm assumign not ALL problems...otherwise he'd be a horrible cop. Just relationship and personal problems then?
 
ceo said:
I'm assumign not ALL problems...otherwise he'd be a horrible cop. Just relationship and personal problems then?
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Yes, exactly. Although, at work he's a loner. He deals with the job but nothing else. I don't really blame him considering the jerks he works with.... but he doesn't chit-chat/socialize at all while he's working.
If he gets pissed off about something at work, he can talk to me about that stuff(but not as much as he did before we got married). He won't confront the problems at work. He won't deal with problems with me. But he will vent about work to me. He's very passive.
 
myway said:
Yes, exactly. Although, at work he's a loner. He deals with the job but nothing else. I don't really blame him considering the jerks he works with.... but he doesn't chit-chat/socialize at all while he's working.
If he gets pissed off about something at work, he can talk to me about that stuff(but not as much as he did before we got married). He won't confront the problems at work. He won't deal with problems with me. But he will vent about work to me. He's very passive.
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So what you're saying is that he is a man when it comes to dealing with issues.... :) He has to deal with work issues differently than a woman. Remember, you see the world differently from him and a little empathy goes a long way.
 
myway said:
No family has stayed over and they are not my size or brand. Red,lacy g-string. A size bigger than mine but deff. sluty undies.... but not my size or brand. When I buy undies, I buy small. These are LARGE. No way they are mine. No family members or anyone else has stayed here or done laundry here.
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They are def. slutwear. If some chic wore that ghetto trash combination around me I'd probably burn them.
 
SaladFork said:
And why do chicks always leave panties behind?
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Why do dogs piss on fire hydrants?
 
javaguru said:
So what you're saying is that he is a man when it comes to dealing with issues.... :) He has to deal with work issues differently than a woman. Remember, you see the world differently from him and a little empathy goes a long way.
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I don't think being a man and being unable to deal with or cope with your problems to be mutally exclusive.
 
I only read bits and pieces of the thread but it seems the issue is still unresolved.

From a guy's perspective, Myway, I've read enough here to conclude that he's lying, no question. Many guys will deny something even in the face of cold hard truth because that's just how they were brought up. What kind of person is he? How much do you really know about him? Questions to ask yourself. It already sounds like he got caught up in a lie with the lost ex's panties/flooring incident, and yet he still denies it.

Weigh your options. Once you know he betrayed your trust, you have to decide whether you're better off with him or without him.

It might be a little different if he at least manned up and admitted the truth.
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
I only read bits and pieces of the thread but it seems the issue is still unresolved.

From a guy's perspective, Myway, I've read enough here to conclude that he's lying, no question. Many guys will deny something even in the face of cold hard truth because that's just how they were brought up. What kind of person is he? How much do you really know about him? Questions to ask yourself. It already sounds like he got caught up in a lie with the lost ex's panties/flooring incident, and yet he still denies it.

Weigh your options. Once you know he betrayed your trust, you have to decide whether you're better off with him or without him.

It might be a little different if he at least manned up and admitted the truth.
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yeah but she's tiny and the undies are size large. . .you're accusing her man (who's also a board member btw) of being a closet-chubby-chaser. . .that's bad-bro material right there. . .
 
yeah but she's tiny and the undies are size large. . .you're accusing her man (who's also a board member btw) of being a closet-chubby-chaser. . .that's bad-bro material right there. . .
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lol......true but maybe he likes some junk in the trunk and myway is a little to firm..........hey myway we need pics of your ass to give you an answer......
dont mean to make this into a joke myway
 
so theres only 4 reasons for the panties.

1: They are the other girls. Why she would lie about who knows
2: They are his and he is embarassed to fill you in on his fetish
3: You're making this story up for attention.
4: GOD put them there intentionally to cause a rift in yoru marriage to test your faith in it
 
Burning_Inside said:
so theres only 4 reasons for the panties.

1: They are the other girls. Why she would lie about who knows
2: They are his and he is embarassed to fill you in on his fetish
3: You're making this story up for attention.
4: GOD put them there intentionally to cause a rift in yoru marriage to test your faith in it
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Ah..That Burning_Inside..So witty and smart..
 
Burning_Inside said:
lol does it matter what color the cock is?
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I'm not sure I see the connection in what you are asking.

Unless you are comparing different cock colors and different types of organized religions.
 
velvett said:
I'm not sure I see the connection in what you are asking.

Unless you are comparing different cock colors and different types of organized religions.
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if youre already believing in fairy tales does it matter if you believe in another?
 
If he is cheating on you , you will know it soon enough. Has he been acting differently recently? More interest in looking good? Catching him in lies? if not, dont worry yet, just be cautious. With that said, if he is a cop, he is naturally more prone to cheating. Power trips, above the law mentality, many of those dudes have..especially if he is Indep PD or KC.
 
Beaverscratch said:
If he is cheating on you , you will know it soon enough. Has he been acting differently recently? More interest in looking good? Catching him in lies? if not, dont worry yet, just be cautious. With that said, if he is a cop, he is naturally more prone to cheating. Power trips, above the law mentality, many of those dudes have..especially if he is Indep PD or KC.
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hey beaverscratch..... How do you know anything about Indep PD?
 
cindylou said:
hey beaverscratch..... How do you know anything about Indep PD?
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He prolly just watches channel 5,lol. Plus, they use an IPD lawsuit video when training california cops on how NOT to commit police brutality.
 
Beaverscratch said:
If he is cheating on you , you will know it soon enough. Has he been acting differently recently? More interest in looking good? Catching him in lies? if not, dont worry yet, just be cautious. With that said, if he is a cop, he is naturally more prone to cheating. Power trips, above the law mentality, many of those dudes have..especially if he is Indep PD or KC.
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Who are you?
 
velvett said:
I don't think I ever said or implied such a thing.

If anything I am by character the very opposite.

Are you confusing me with someone else?
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lol no im just saying about how you asked if religious people believe that sort of thing, I just joked saying well basically if they believe one crazy notion what's stopping them from believing something else equally wierd.
 
Man this post has generated a ton of interest. Phantom panties :0). I did laundry one time out in town picked up some panties then my gf came over and helped me fold the clothes, found the panties and was quite upset. Luckily they were pretty big so she believed i was innocent because i said I wouldnt sleep with a girl 3x's your size. (And if i did believe me i was drunk... real drunk and the punishment would of already been served)

Another time my brother got me X3 size panties for my birthday. That was a roit (for him).

Yes I know this doesnt help answer your question but i like to hear myself talk.
 
digimon7068 said:
yeah but she's tiny and the undies are size large. . ..
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I was wondering, a lot of assumptions have been made by myway and others based on the size of the undies.

How you be sure of what size someone actually wears, especially when you are talking about a worn out pair of drawers that came out of the dryer?

I've been with some women before who seemed like they had a flat ass and then when I saw them nekked it was a different story.
 
EnderJE said:
If it were me, then I think that my wife would post up on some fitness board that I don't really know about (where she's posted topless pics and talked about my smashed laptop) and I'd get trashed by some Internet peeps who never really met me.

Then again, if it were me and I were a cop who's had a really shitty day, then I'd want to go to sleep but would talk to my wife later about it.
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Topless Pix?
Post a link ASAP!

So far I've only read the first 25 pages.
My thoughts so far:
_Counseling is in order.
_Myway should worry about cops that kill wife's and gf's to avoid costly child support payments.
_Cop should worry about Moms that kill newborns and blame it on post partum depression.
_BM needs to learn that there's no such body part(s) called "tie ins". And when they're incorrectly refered to, it's by people with striated muscle and shrink wraped skin - which excludes her.
_EF needs a built in spell check, for myself and others.
_I need to go to the Gym and train my delt/trap tie ins - pfffft.
 
reno240 said:
Do they look brand new? Just throwin out alternatives - maybe you went shopping recently and they wound up in your bag then in the laundry.
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Hahahah I gotta use this one if I ever cheat!

Oh no baby you went shopping last night remember maybe the jumped in your bag you brought them home and you washed them!


Bawhahahaha Oh I hope it works!
 
cindylou said:
hey beaverscratch..... How do you know anything about Indep PD?
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Born and raised in Indep. Have some good friends on the force and some not so good friends.

Now living in Lee's Scummit. I have a lot of Indep cops as clients. Why do you ask?
 
myway said:
Lol. That would be funny. He prolly hangs out at Queen City Motel at 24&291.
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Thats too classy for me, I live at the motel next to the Tool Shed on 40 hwy. :worried:, actually that was a move up in the world, Hocker Heights now that is the hood baby!
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
he's a bum on 24 highway.
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I actually feel bad for those 24HWy bums. When I was a teen they used to come into the grocery store I worked at and constantly get caught stealing food and running back to the woods behind the store.

Myway, I sincerly hope your man isnt cheating. Any new info on this? Best of luck. Thats got to be tough.
 
Beaverscratch said:
Thats too classy for me, I live at the motel next to the Tool Shed on 40 hwy. :worried:, actually that was a move up in the world, Hocker Heights now that is the hood baby!
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OMG! Are you really from Indy? U in town with me? Sure sounds like it! :Popcorn:
 
All that fuzz for nothing.
 
myway said:
Really, nothing new.
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everything still awkardly quiet? or has it gotten past that....
 
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