Men. any idea?

[spongebob]

Ok. When doing my husbands laundry, I found undies(not mine) mixed with his clothes. He said he didn't know where they came from. The only other person that EVER does laundry at my house is my good friend,melissa. She says they aren't hers. I am under the impression that the CORRECT action would be to trust my husband. I keep trying to wrap my mind around it....it's not working. He can't give me any logical explaination about these unknown undies ending up in our house/laundry.
I haven't reacted in any crazy way...yet .......but I am not satisfied with the responses from him. Hmmmm.
Wonder what I should do with this sittuation.....any ideas?
BTW- I'm not wanting to fight. I just want a reason from him that could make this make sense.
So far, he said he loves me, would never cheat or lie and he wants me to trust him. That would all work out fine if I wasn't hold in my hand slut undies that DO NOT belong to me. I'm trying to br reasonable. Where do I go from now?

he's fucking somebody no doubt about it. i could basically ask you some questions and then tell you definitely and why but i'll save it.

back off of it and let it drop, but then install a keylogger on your computer to track his every move on it and get his secrete emails and passwords.

 

[spongebob]

is the washer and dryer used? is it possible that the panties belong to the previous owner and they were trapped in the top part of the washer for years and finally fell back down into the machine during spin cycle, its definitely plausible.

 

[blueta2]

Myway, no matter what the truth is, the best move would be to get some therapy.
Living with doubt will erode you from the inside out.

 

[Longhorn85]

he's fucking somebody no doubt about it.

is it possible that the panties belong to the previous owner... its definitely plausible.

At first everyone wants to convict the guy, but after thinking about it realize you can't, really.

 

[velvett]

At first everyone wants to convict the guy, but after thinking about it realize you can't, really.

I don't necessarily ageree with that, I think it's easy to convict him (especially if you base it on past actions) but it's just as easy to be rational with your reaction to it and to him.

 

[Jon79]

I don't necessarily ageree with that, I think it's easy to convict him (especially if you base it on past actions) but it's just as easy to be rational with your reaction to it and to him.

i saw u at that other place

 

[cindylou]

he's fucking somebody no doubt about it. i could basically ask you some questions and then tell you definitely and why but i'll save it.

back off of it and let it drop, but then install a keylogger on your computer to track his every move on it and get his secrete emails and passwords.

I think she's done that already

 

[velvett]

i saw u at that other place

Was I being naughty or nice?

 

[Cutiebaby]

why are u asking advice from a bunch of buffoons on a fucking fitness forum.....do you trust him? if so believe him...if not confront him.

exactly

 

[xrsist]

hope your ok myway
dont waste your money on a PI