Men. any idea?

[myway]

 

[borris]

buahahahahahaahhaahahah, if I found a condom up in shawty's pants, i'd be cool to

 

[ceo]

Nate has not given me any new answers. Just says he doesn't know how they got there. He also says he would never do this and hopes that I don't leave. He says that the next time I find anything questionable, I can leave and he won't try to stop me. My dad wants to send us to a MEGA therapist.
As far as me, I don't know about anything.

Soooo...he's saying there will be a "next time"???????!@?!S

I hope there's no next time. And, I sure hope this time really was nothing but a prank and definitely not him cheating. Even though it doesn't look that way. I hope you don't get hurt myway.

 

[Longhorn85]

My dad wants to send us to a MEGA therapist.

Good

 

[Longhorn85]

He says that the next time I find anything questionable, I can leave and he won't try to stop me.

Umm...not so much.

 

[wootoom]

why are u asking advice from a bunch of buffoons on a fucking fitness forum.....do you trust him? if so believe him...if not confront him.

 

[nimbus]

He says that the next time I find anything questionable, I can leave and he won't try to stop me

If he really had no idea how they got there, he wouldn't be saying something like this, because he would have no way to control whether it happened again.

Pretty sure something shady went down.

 

[Jon79]

buahahahahahaahhaahahah, if I found a condom up in shawty's pants, i'd be cool to

wait shawty ? thats ur gf' s name? sorry man.... just a wierd name

 

[velvett]

Nate has not given me any new answers. Just says he doesn't know how they got there. He also says he would never do this and hopes that I don't leave. He says that the next time I find anything questionable, I can leave and he won't try to stop me. My dad wants to send us to a MEGA therapist.
As far as me, I don't know about anything.

Oh wow, he is good.

In one breath he tells you he hopes you won't leave and in another he's telling you it will be your fault if you leave and break up the family.

Take your father up on the offer and go to therapy as a couple and also go alone.

Sometime we pick people to have in our lives because there's something about ourselves we need to face and improve upon and sometimes it's just to punish ourselves for our own weakness.

You guys need to figure out or remember why you came together in the first place and what now perpetuates the negative and destructive behavior between you both.

 

[heatherrae]

Nate has not given me any new answers. Just says he doesn't know how they got there. He also says he would never do this and hopes that I don't leave. He says that the next time I find anything questionable, I can leave and he won't try to stop me. My dad wants to send us to a MEGA therapist.
As far as me, I don't know about anything.

sounds like an accidental confession there. He is implicitly stating that what happened was shady and that it won't happen again. Plus, the fact that he always goes to bed or refuses to give answers makes me think he can't face the tough questions.