Men. any idea?

[rubberneck]

I would like just ONE "logical" explanation as to how a stranger's intimate apparell could possibly end up in a family's wash.

I could care less if it were male/female. Just come up with ONE scenario that isn't completely "out there" and I would say that MABYE the dude isn't exercising extremely poor judgment during his extra curricular activities.

The dog carry them home!

 

[retsiger]

The dog carry them home!

Hmmmmm....do you use that one often?

 

[BNG]

I would like just ONE "logical" explanation as to how a stranger's intimate apparell could possibly end up in a family's wash.

I could care less if it were male/female. Just come up with ONE scenario that isn't completely "out there" and I would say that MABYE the dude isn't exercising extremely poor judgment during his extra curricular activities.

I said it before and here it is again. If he is in a locker room somebody could just be fuckin with him. Some jealous a-hole may be wanting to drop a bomb on him cause he was bragging about how great his life is to some guy who's as f'd as the Jerry Springer Contestants he's dealing with daily. People are wacked.

There's a possibility, it doesn't sound good from this side of the story and I wouldn't condone it if he's cheating. Just sayin'.

P.S. I was just thinking about a time when I was active duty that one of my "friends" thought his wife was cheating on him. We wound up in different units and he came and asked me not to come around them anymore. I had done nothing. Turned out she was ho'in around for spending cash while he was deployed. Our friendship was never restored though. People fuck up all the time, sometimes blaming the wrong peeps, jumping to conclusions etc.
I think most every cop I've known is, or has become, an arrogant ass. Feel like they are superior to the rest of the people around them.

 

[ceo]

Or he could say...my wife trusts me now because we've been through all this shit, I'm too mature to put up with my friend's joke like that, and she must see this is stupid...?

lol! I assume you are a somewhat reasonable person. Lets say this happened to you and you really had no idea where the panties came from. Same shit in the past too (wife caught you talking to exes, suspicious activity on computer), but say you never even cheated. You could see though how it really didn't look good to your wife for you to be talking to exes. Hell, I'm sure you wouldn't like it if your wife was talking to her ex boyfriends.

Now back to the finding of the panties and her questioning you. I would think that given the past you would want to reassure your wife completely that you had no idea how they got there but that you would do your best to find out how they did.

Or am I wrong about you being a reasonable person?

 

[EnderJE]

lol! I assume you are a somewhat reasonable person. Lets say this happened to you and you really had no idea where the panties came from. Same shit in the past too (wife caught you talking to exes, suspicious activity on computer), but say you never even cheated. You could see though how it really didn't look good to your wife for you to be talking to exes. Hell, I'm sure you wouldn't like it if your wife was talking to her ex boyfriends.

Now back to the finding of the panties and her questioning you. I would think that given the past you would want to reassure your wife completely that you had no idea how they got there but that you would do your best to find out how they did.

Or am I wrong about you being a reasonable person?

If it were me, then I think that my wife would post up on some fitness board that I don't really know about (where she's posted topless pics and talked about my smashed laptop) and I'd get trashed by some Internet peeps who never really met me.

Then again, if it were me and I were a cop who's had a really shitty day, then I'd want to go to sleep but would talk to my wife later about it.

 

[ceo]

If it were me, then I think that my wife would post up on some fitness board that I don't really know about (where she's posted topless pics and talked about my smashed laptop) and I'd get trashed by some Internet peeps who never really met me.

Then again, if it were me and I were a cop who's had a really shitty day, then I'd want to go to sleep but would talk to my wife later about it.

oh he knows about EF. He has an account here. I'm just waiting for him to log on and read this (he rarely logs on anymore).

 

[all the whey]

If it were me, then I think that my wife would post up on some fitness board that I don't really know about (where she's posted topless pics and talked about my smashed laptop) and I'd get trashed by some Internet peeps who never really met me.

Then again, if it were me and I were a cop who's had a really shitty day, then I'd want to go to sleep but would talk to my wife later about it.

STFU and go drive 8 hrs to pick up your SON'S DOLL, because your wife told you to you fucking henpecked pussy.



Do you still have feeeelings for some other girl you met at work or something?? Ohhh she is sooo special...I don't know what to dooooo!!!!! I might be in looooovveeee wwahhhhh wahhhh

 

[Stefka]

Maybe someone bought you some large red thongs as a gag gift when you were pregnant.

Stray underwear are usually a bad sign. I've been there. My boyfriend reacted in the same way your husband did. I knew he was lying and I later had real proof that he was lying. But I wasn't even 24 and I had no real emotional investment in the relationship.

This must be so hard to deal with right now. I wish the best for you and your son.

 

[Smurfy]

does your husband have a sister by any chance?

 

[jnevin]

I'd have to say his whole laptop thing coupled with a phone that's always blanked and now the panties leave 'ol Nate with a bunch of explaining to do. I'm sorry you're dealing with this, but if he gives a shit about his family, he really should be taking this seriously.